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Sunday, 31 May 2009

MY REPLY :)

Well I simply loved all your arguments..in the previous post.
And I take it as your opinion too.

Do you think I am like those..traditional women..who blame the girl when she is raped??
Ok its not about me at all.

I used the word control there.
I also said control is not only with power and strength.
And what I have felt after analysing..is women do like to control (not with power)  a men.....but only until it's safe...but the couter reaction...(I call it Rape) is not safe.
it has disastrous results.

Well....here I am not blaming women completely...

Majority is something. Isn't it??
(Well i think so).

And more over....Some men also get attracted(that way) to you just because you are a girl.
An believe me here also the control factor comes in.(The other case...I forgot to mention)
I believe that has been completely mistook.

And don't you all think...It needs a lot of courage for a girl in this modern times..to write this..
I mean it can be called so so traditional.

Anyway.......I am not here to agrue...and make a fight over here...but...still I'd love to get your points to it. 

20 comments:

Suresh Kumar said...

That was nicely put...

But do all men wish to control ? I know few who see a beautiful girl, enjoy this nature's gift and phew, few minutes later, bhool gaya bcoz nature has made such gifts in abundance :)

Control factor may work in case of some men, but how far it will take them to ruin a girl's life..... not sure of that one.... lets read other's views....

sawan said...

i still some how is not convinced with the thought of "control". I dnt think grls who show some skin deserve to be raped. the chances of the pervert minds which do this act on a grl with less clothes and a grl with more clothes stnd the same goven the opportunity is there.

Amal Bose said...

I agree that showing off their skin can gain mens attention and in most cases men feel attracted to them.. but this can in no way justify something so wrong as rape.
we dont have an automatic rape switch that turns on when the level of skin shown exceeds a certain limit.. (studying EEE for 3 years has affected my thinking pattern :-( )

U certainly have shown a lot of courage in writing this.. appreciate it

deeps said...

As I said
be ready to flee or fight or at least scream…
or well.. enjoy! :-) there is no point in making hell burn hotter when hell is the only way out! (you can disagree)

and you know that saying?
Whether leaves fall on thorn or vice versa …?

Phoenix said...

hmm i dont know what to say... control or not control it is not right to put blame of a rape to one who provoked or one is is being provoked.

peace.

Mayz said...

**Some men also get attracted(that way) to you just because you are a girl.

now really??? so u mean d rest of d men get attracted despite u r a girl???

LOL!!! sorry i cudnt stop laffn at dat statement of urs

Priya Joyce said...

@ mayz:

I mean some men get attracted to u tat way..not bcoz u r wearing some skin showing outfit or something..but juss bcoz u r a gall they mite "Rape" u
!!

@ all: wud reply soon

Priya Joyce said...

@ suresh:
well that depends on wat kind of feelings in going thru a man's mind at tat tym....

and nothing else.

Priya Joyce said...

@ sawan:

i too do not think those gals deserve to be raped...but I juss meant to say.the control factor lies everywer.....wth guys and gals too!!

Priya Joyce said...

@ amal:

well am not justifying..am juss analysing the facts!!

well keep goin :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ deeps:

well hahah am still not in agreement wth wat others say..and neither do they agree wat I say :P

well yeh hav heard tat adage:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ raka:

well well..after all it's the girl who suffers.now the quest is does she suffer much more that she njoyed??

well doubts!!

Chriz said...

and it is indeed shocking and alarming to see a growing rate of women maids indulging in child molestation..

your point is a very delicate issue that has been there over the years..

the rage of hormones has done all the decilish things in the society.. and now the gender struggle is coming into the plot these days

Arv said...

nice :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ chriz:

yeh gender struggle..

i agree..that dominates the truth sometimes :(

Priya Joyce said...

@ arv:)

:):)

MINATOR said...

I say shoot the rapers problemo solved...

Girl has the right to wear anything she wants that doesnt give a man the right to rape her...

Chriz where do i find those women maid... mail me yaar... :D

Priya Joyce said...

@ minator:

well well

reely??

do u think it is about right??

many things r emotionally psychologically very right which r not ethically and morally rite.

thnx for ur comment
welcom here :):)

Saranya said...

Ooophs......I should have read this before the previous post :) Thumbs up! :)

The Geekie said...

i can see lots of courage n guts in u to write this post

gud work dear