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Wednesday, 20 May 2009

TO THE GUYS!!

OK this post is to the guys(some).....who've been tryin to give me an indirect message that they aren't interested in me.....
Well for all of ur all kind message....
I do not care about you.....

and so you do not deserve to be called brothers too.

I've been facing a lot because of my frank behaviour.....

Can't a girl be frank?? If she's a li'l open to a guy....he starts thinking else......
I hate uuuuuuuu.........

what the hell......now I am tired of it.

43 comments:

Ayushi said...

Well Priya, all I can say is, if you were frank, you must allow others the relaxation to be frank too.

Everyone makes mistakes, and they lose/make friends accordingly.
I am glad that you did not(atleast in your last post) deny your nature as is the case with most people, while at the same time I would suggest more introspection upon understanding others(a rational change), and if you reach the same conclusion: a possible deletion of this post.

Impulsive behaviour and generalizations are rarely justified.

Amal Bose said...

no offense but... i think u r searching for reasons to get yourself depressed

why this mood swings??

Suresh Kumar said...

What happened? don't hurt yourself, girl....

You have spoken your heart out and there is nothing wrong in it... Only a lucky few can do that.... If people fail to appreciate that one, its their problem......

Sam said...

oye chill mar kudi. koi interest ho na ho, ki fark padta hai. oye bhad me gaye wo log. Tel lene gaye. tu kyu apna dimag ka bharta karti hai.

oye jo aisa soch raha hai, wo dimag se circuit hai. par tu kyu apne dimag ka fuse uda rahi he uske peeche.

let go of this DJ PJ Cattie Cat.

Cheer up and laugh like u always do. LoLing :P

Karthik said...

:o

Amal Bose said...

i think my previous comment seemed a bit rude..
but what i want to say is that dont ever let anyone else make you feel bad.
be happy

yamini meduri said...

hey PJ.....never think of anyone else yaar..be yourself..!!!

and this frankness is what i like in you the most..!!!

deeps said...

Ohh comon That’s unbecoming of a PJ
It s not the time to crib about silly things ….
Don’t give a damn to those trying to …..whatever …

As long as you are sure about what you are getting at, don’t bother ..

Just take it one step a time and njoy the ride …

How you been doing?
Still in the air?
Ei PJ when will we get to know his name?
hope you arent gona show a vanishing act!

Vani said...

hey pj wat happened??!
Ders nothing wrong vit speaking ur heart! Some ppl take the frankness to be rudeness..Never mind dem.. Be urself.

Harshita said...

:)

hota hain... hota hain...guys tend to think har ladki unhi ki deewani hain...LOL

stay the way u r... but yeah! make sure u r surrounded by right kinda ppl...

Take care sweetie...

Arv said...

I would say... cheer up and forget abt them :)


take care gal... cheers...

Suree said...

hey pj ,

oh oh oh cool down ... if you r really frank , then tell him to F.O ...


urs
suree

Pallav said...

ohho...
why r u reacting..
just dont heed them
bhai....
cool down
take achill pill n hv fun
ths happens yar..
Pallav

Srinivas said...

Take a cup of coffee, have a sip... take a deep breath... once again take a sip...have a deep breath... Wah !!! enjoy the whole cup of coffee...


Do not forget "There are many nice things to do..." cheer up... enjoy !!!

Priya Joyce said...

@ ayushi:

well they were not frank..otherwise the cud hav given me a direct message. but they kept on giving me indirect indications na.
:):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ amal:

no yaar nothin like that.i've been xperiencing it frm long...so just said it today:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ suresh:

i thot..like that.but some ppl don't and tat' reely sad:(

Priya Joyce said...

@ sam:

bahut chill mar li....aakhir..gussa mijhe bhi aata hei na
hadh ho jaati hei kayi logon ki toh!
huh!

thnx niway:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ amal:

i understand :) no issues:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ Karthik:

:(

Priya Joyce said...

@ yamini:

well thnx dear....am sad..those who don't they cud juss tell it na:(

y this indirect game:(

Priya Joyce said...

@ deeps:

well this was like a volcano eruption tat hadd to come out hehehe...am ok now:)

his name...

donno whether i'll reveal it ever :P

Priya Joyce said...

@ vani:

yehaa dear..am tryin to do that now :P

Priya Joyce said...

@ harshii:

yesh re..abb wahi karungi ;)

Priya Joyce said...

@ arv:

yehaa....thnx dear:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ suree:

yehaa well.i cud but i chose this :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ pallav:

yehaa tryin to do so :(.....well am fyn now :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ srinivas:

yehaa i guess tats the best thing for me now :)

thnx :)

Ayushi said...

Ha...but why do you give your frankness such credit and their indirectness such discredit?
1)You can’t generalise
2)I think it is majorly personality dependant how they chose to do something, as long as they do it!
Com’on Priya, you are a tolerant girl, why force(or even expect) others to be like you :)
Do not hate them for going by their own individual natures.

I'll try 2 be truthful said...

one golden advice : never ever and never think what a guy (howeever much u like or dislike him ) thinks him , once u start thinking about their thinking bas teri individual thinking gayi tel lane. so dont think that much :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ ayushi:

well they can be anything and whatever..when its personal..but when they deal with someone else..they have to go as per society rules..that is much expected from a civilized human being.

well..they shud hav told me or..juss mailed me regarding their feeling..
that wud be the best thing to do..but no..kahaan..lagta hei..they ren't in a mood for a straight talk !

:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ amrita:

hahaha waise..they hav made me think frm their point of view..:(

Quest said...

I am the devil ;) where are the guys (some), I would like to drink their blood mixed with honey and topped with chocolate ice cream...the devil's fav in this hot summer :D

Quest

Ayushi said...

I'm surprised to find most people's opinion on this topic to be the same as yours, but I beg to disagree.
Living in a society does not mean suppression of anyone's individual standards, though I find it prevalent everywhere.
We live in a society to help each other's individual tastes grow, not to condition them.

Priya Joyce said...

@ quest:

heheheh nothin new in that..lol

i know perfectly well about that ;)

Priya Joyce said...

@ ayushi:

tum argue nahi karna chodogi na??

;)

I don't think....anybody has the right to nurture..his/her..qualities hurting others..
justice comes first.
social..rules aren't something like the school discipline ;)
they are basically somethings made or come into existence by..people's agreement.

SMRITI said...

Debate mein main nahi ghusti...kyunki kabhi kabhi mujhe bhi tere jaisa hi lagta hai....to main apne dimaaag ka dahi nahi bana rahi...

All I can say is, Thank god I am not a guy...warna mujhe bhi tujhse I hate uuuuuuuuuu.......sunna padta...Na na na....I love my PJ >:D< >:D<

Ayushi said...

Well, I find such discussions quite healthy for my mind :)

Why do you give so much power to "everybody" or anybody over your own self?
Nobody hurts you except for your own self,Priya. Getting hurt, for me, is a complete waste of time, and I say that because I was, once, a very sensitive girl and it brought me nothing but irrational self-pity and anger over others.

Its just like saying that if a girl wears a short skirt in a bar, she is provoking others.
It is the others's fault that they got provoked, not the girl's.

I like the way you never deny your nature(and even accepted getting hurt):Its unique :)
But understand, that you can always change your nature if you find it wasting yourself.

Priya Joyce said...

@ smriti:

hehehe reely??

well tu guy bhi hoti toh tujhe nahi hate kar paati

and yeh saare guys ke liye na tha na :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ ayushi:

well..that's gud..

hmmm..I used to say all this..I even say now...but am very moody....so very much..that some of my opinions change wth my mood..and well..when emotions come in...brain kindaa stops workin for me...

i guess so

and now I say this...may be..some other tym.i'd be speaking like u to another person hahaha!!
strange patterns..of my behaviour....

funny funny....

Ayushi said...

take the myers briggs test:
that might point to your 'F' nature (a particular trait)

Priya Joyce said...

@ ayushi:

i hav a tendency to be dishonest with tests ;)

psychological hei :)

Ayushi said...

arrey believe me, you wont be able to decieve that one!
I mean, ok, be honest, but its effective...