See ya Soooooooooooooon!!

So guys finally it's time for me to get back to my studies...hmmmmm!!

Well I dun hav anything to write here am juss making a post to inform you all that I'll be missing from ur blogs till both my practical and theoretical exams are over....

Till then see yaa...

And pleeeeeeeeeeeeeees Missssssss me :D:D:D:D
Take care
hugs to all....
ps:) yehss if nything special happens I'd be right here to inform you all :P

Deeps & Shikha! (BrEaKiNg NeWs)

It was 10th of April 2009 when this guy called Deeps came to my blog...and it was just an act of courtesy to get back to his space and post a comment...
That day I never thought that I'd be writing a post as such for him. From blog friends to E-mail friends then chat friends and phone friends...it has been an amazing journey of friendship with him...
We've never met till date but we still share a wonderful bond of friendship...and because of which I get the first chance to announce this very important thing of his life first to the world of wonderful friends...even before him.. :P

So guys...before you all keep guessing all wrong things I'd better announce that Deeps a.K.K.a Deepu Paul is getting engaged to Shikha Selvin who's also a very good friend of mine and who I'd say is as beautiful a human being as him...

"Love is a miracle, sweet as can be,
That will always remain a complete mystery.
For though it is something that’s centuries old,
It cannot be purchased for silver or gold.
But instead must be given of one’s own free will,
And received with no promises it must fulfill.
And once it’s exchanged in this time-honored way,
There’s nothing that love cannot manage to say.
No problems too great and no problems too small,
For love, like a miracle, conquers them all.
And leaves in their place such a feeling of peace,
That joy, just like love, cannot help but increase!"

I take this opportunity to wish these two souls getting united, a life full of love and completing the other...

My warmest and heartiest wishes to the two love(ly) souls.

May your engagement be Blessed with joy and companionship for all your lives!

Teenagers and freedom!!

Basically this is going to be a boring topic for you all...but I just felt to write it cos of the way I see people are..

This has been going inside me since a long time..somehow..it's just today that I felt to let it out..
Many of my high school classmates..I see them on orkut..and facebook..and Hi5 and many other socializing sites..they are all away from their parents and living a life of freedom(I quite dunno whether that is freedom)

When they come home they still are roaming around..meeting old friends.and thus they rarely spend any time with their parents..
They have girlfriends/boyfriends...
some of them even drink...
May be some of them even take drugs...
and when they get on chat they have nothing to talk about other than parties and the free lives they live...
In front of parents they are so pure /sacred...goody good...children..and on the other side..they are devils..
Parents don't know what their kids are up to...and keep thinking that they are nice and if at all something is wrong it's wrong with their friends.
In front of others they portray such a clear image of their child.

I agree that my parents dun know every detail about my emotions.
But they sure know that what I am upto..
Freedom..yes I have lots of freedom...
I think if a guy of my class comes to my place and talks to me..serious stuffs..my dad would never say "Priya don't talk to him anymore"
I tell them almost everything..
They know about the guys in my life, they know about every new friend I make..They have given me freedom..only as much as I can handle..they keep a watch on me...so that I don't take such paths that may make me regret later..
I am basically proud to be with them!!

So my question is...what is freedom all about??
For teenagers!!
(I want you all to answer as you feel)

Is love sacrifice??

When you love a person, you care for a person..and always want good for that person.. When you truly care for a person you also care about what that person thinks about you...

But life is quite strange...
At times it happens that when we really want to do good to a person...and there is a risk that we could be misunderstood by that same person...
we choose to be bad in the eyes of that person..and actually do good to him/her.

May be that is why it is said...that real love is not..being good always ..in the eyes of the person you love..
We can always do good to a person even when we aren't in their good books...

Isn't it basically a sacrifice?? sacrificing one's image...

Is love sacrifice?

Memories .2009...Welcome... 2010

Yet another year gone...
For me this year was the year of extremes...
Extremely emotional year .Which ultimately made me more mature and be moderate to
handle situations and emotional breakdowns.
For me this year started with a long 3 month break from blogs-ville cos of various reasons.. main being Exams..
Yet I could not maintain that..
There were lots of situations when I just thought "this is the end of it"
Yet something made me get up and fight it out...

When my cat died..on 14th Jan..I just had to vent out my emotions some where..and I found my blog to be the best place .. (I still am thankful to each and everyone who supported me then).

There was a time when I decided to quit blogger....Well misunderstandings can cause blunders specially in relationships...yet some people are so good that they just forgive you even if you have spoiled their name in public (though unintentionally) :):)

My birthday..one of the most beautiful ones I've ever had...I can only thank God for all the wonderful friends I've got...who care so so much for me...Thanks everyone :) that's the least I can say :)

There were many mushy moments..this year..the word "committed" in front of my "relationship status" brought questions in many minds...hahah...
But God willed something else...someone else..So here I am back to the old crush(y) and non-mushy moods of mine :P Yes outaa love :)

My college was like a picnic this time...the picnic which I was very irregular to attend..yet..I got a second rank ...and..scored well(not so well though, guys, who actually want me to top this year ...I can't promise you :P)

At the end of this year Nov 18 precisely...I lost my dear classmate...and the most hurting was the way people were speaking about her character...

I had to learn cooking. For the first time I managed the kitchen as mom does..yes I got a lot of help from daddy(he did the dishes for me :P)...
Basically that was a lot of work...haha.

Christmas was good anyhow.. I met many of my old schoolmates...bus mates..after a long long time..and celebrating it the way we used to then. It was a nice feeling all together.

And yes finally after 2 years of no non-veg(which I personally said no to cos of certain reasons of mine) I had to get back to non-veg specially fish.. cos my Doc says so...hmmmm:(

Extreme happiness extreme sadness...all came this year...
What I take from this year is the maturity I gained, the positivity that helped me a lot to not question life and yes..the ability to let go happily...

I think I have basically learned to be a person who now thinks a lot about every step she takes..
Now I no more share so freely as I used to...I became stingy in expressing my sadness..not happiness though
yes that makes my kiddish ness..a lot less .yet..it also helps me to not fall into unnecessary troubles..

Any how...I know my facebook friends specially would keep calling me a kid...however much I try..hahah..Secretly I love to be a kid too :P


The year is gone..or just hours left...
Hope 2010 brings us all more happy moments than sad.

Wishing you all a Happy New Year :):)

Take care. Hugs to all :)

It's Christmas :):)

Living in a place where most of the people wonder what Christmas is? or assume it to be just the festival of Santa and gifts and chocolates...it's difficult to explain to them what Christmas really is..
Every time I hear people telling me..."hey pj this time what new have you bought for Christmas..??", "How are you decorating your house?", "When would be the Santa coming at your place?" I feel is Christmas all about this? No.
It surely has a more divine and important message..

The message is Humility which is followed by simplicity.

Jesus Christ was not born in a grand palace. He was not born to very wealthy or learned parents. Also He was not born in the full blaze of daylight with the knowledge of all men. Jesus Christ was born in a simple lowly place, a corner of a stable. He was born to humble and poor parents, who had nothing to boast about, except their own spotless character and holiness.

Also He was born in the darkness in the obscure hour of midnight, when no one even knew about it, except a few Divinely blessed people.The quality of true humility is one of the indispensable fundamentals. Then we find simplicity, holiness and the renunciation of all desire for worldly wealth and pride of learning.

This is the message I would like to give it to all of you too...
Yes..buying new clothes, decorating your houses with stars and bells ain't bad..but that shouldn't make us forget the true spirit of this festival...

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas...

Truth hurts...but...

It's sometimes better to say a stern "no" rather than making a person doubt about what's going on in your mind...

I hate it when people take your generosity and hesitation to hurt them as something else..

The truth hurts but sometimes there is no other way around..

Yet....telling a truth to someone early can reduce their pain...
I believe so...