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Monday, 1 June 2009

Love(ly) relationships!!

Relationships is what the world lives on.

Relationship with parents....relationship with friends....relationship with teachers......relationship with every person you meet....

And then relationship with the person you love.
One of the many special relationships indeed.

When many people talk about "love" relationships.....they look out for similarities in their..."special someone".

I do not say similarities aren't essential.
They are very very essential.
But with similarities... complementarity is also an essential.

My dad...an intellectual...and a person...who cannot be called very worldly wise.
But what about my mom....she's outgoing..and very very practical.

This works out like a lock into the key.

Similarities are very essential......but complementarities are which make the relationship of a man and a woman(the so called complementary...beings) a success.


66 comments:

Amal Bose said...

very true..
differences are just as important as similarities in a relationship..
Ive heard a celebrity say that he and his wife are completely different, so they complete each other.

sawan said...

agreed to it swty. differences and acceptance of the same run the game!

Suresh Kumar said...

This one...no one will disagree.
I know a practical example of how differences complemented each other in a couple

Arv said...

very true :)

Hemanth Potluri said...

very true :)..

urs..hemu..

Hemanth Potluri said...

my previous comment was like eevryone was saying very true i to told :P...lol...

its nice u wrote this post Priya...yeah u find a person who completes u for a love relation not the person who is similar like u...u get bored if u do so...

but all that matters main also is trust and caring :)...

urs..hemu..

Hemanth Potluri said...

Have a gr8 week ahead...

urs..hemu..

Keshi said...

I really think it's neither of em...not necessarily. It's just chemistry between 2 ppl :)

Keshi.

ANWESA said...

i beliv opposite "poles" attract but they both shud b of same magnetic susceptibility.
lol...

Cяystal said...

I agree with you..differences are sometimes more essential that similarities...and as they truly say.. OPPOSITES ATTRACT!..and yup, my mom dad and nearly every happy couple I see are quite different, but the differences contribute in makin' them happy =)

sexy Filipino girl said...

With the similarities you share with your partner your relationship will indeed work out because you jive with the things you love and hate but we are unique individual so better have an open mind to accept each others differences to have a harmonious and long lasting relationship.

Aditya said...

totally agree

deeps said...

ei pri forgot to tell you ..this is a lovely atmosphere you have created here with that bird hovering there ... nice :-)

aaaha.. so there you go, though bit round about ...
ehem! ;-)

i believe we are all chips in a universal jigsaw puzzle ... how we fit in to make a beautiful picture depends on LOVE ...

Ganesh Bhat(ಗಣೇಶ ಭಟ್ಟ ) said...

agreed..where r u from??

MultiMenon said...

It depends on the individual..Different ppl have different perceptions on it.I would say,u go in for what ur mind says rather than the norm.. :)

Nikhil

Praveen said...

someone's talking about love, relationships and that special someone everywhere...from her facebook profile to blog :D
wats cooking;)

Sam said...

they say opposites attract. not sure how true it is. but yes man and women shud complement each other.

so they shud start drinking complan together from day 1.

Phoenix said...

not always... there is something called chemistry too.. :)

Mayz said...

its always opposites who attract :)

rahul said...

not sure if it's true..it really depends on the individuals.

Chriz said...

lock and the key...

i am the key waiting for that lock..

Harshita said...

Completely agree...

Nanhi Pari, itni choti si age mein itni badi badi baatein kahaan se seekhi??

Meghaa said...

Wow thats the nice one and the truth about life...

Karthik said...

Arumai Arumai!!

Priya Joyce said...

@ amal:

yes its abt completing :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ sawan:

:)

well accepting and agreeing also plays a part :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ suresh:

some did :P

well i too hav at my home itself
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ arv:

:):)
yeh

Priya Joyce said...

@ hemz:
:):)

Leo said...

PJ gettin philos?? :)

so true too what u say! :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ hemz:

yeh sometymes we do get bored wth a carbon copy :P

Priya Joyce said...

@ hemz:

:P lol

yehe..u too

Priya Joyce said...

@ keshi:

well i guess.....this chemistry comes of attraction..toward someone
well don't u thnk we get attracted wo ppl cos of their qualities??
which can be similar or different.

plz reply for sure dear
:)

Priya Joyce said...

Anwesa:

yahaa sab chemistry ki baat kar rahe hei...in one way or the other :P

Saranya said...

Very true! :) There are many aspects determine a relationship and your point was one :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ aayushi:

well well

opposites do attract....but wat i meant was abt completing..each other...

it does work
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ sexy Fg:

well yeh...we shud be open enuff to accept the differences..

but i guess...wat i wanted to say was abt...qualities tat completes...them in a relationship. :)

welcome here
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ aditya:

:) thnx
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ deeps:

tats wat i call as beautifully said.


yeh the kindaa jugsaw puzzle image was wat i was tryin to potray....ppl took it as opposite traits :)

:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ deeps:

tat was JIGSAW*

Priya Joyce said...

@ ganesh:

thnx
:)

me frm INDIA :P

Priya Joyce said...

@ niks:

well yeh.....this is wat my mind says but
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ praveen:

:P

lol may be love is gettin cooked ;)

Priya Joyce said...

@ sam:

nopes i didn't mean opposite..i meant complementary :)

well well....u shud try and then advertise it for us to try ;)

Priya Joyce said...

@ Raka:

well hav replied to Keshi
chk tat...

u both hav the same opinion :P

Priya Joyce said...

@ mayank

well i guess i didn't talk abt opposites..i talked abt the "completing" qualities...

opposites do not complete each other
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ rahul

but if both complete each other tats the best relationship we'd ever have....
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ chriz:

hahaha

hope no ulterior meanings ;)

Priya Joyce said...

@ harshi :)

thnx yaar

bas..aap se hi :P

Priya Joyce said...

@ megha:

thnx dear and welcome here
:):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ karthik:

wazz tat re
??

Priya Joyce said...

@ leo:

am 18 now hav to :P:P

Priya Joyce said...

@ saranya

thnx dear :)
:)

ApocalypsE said...

yes that why they say I'm incomplete without you to their special person which turns out to be more than one sometimes... :D

Mayz said...

completein each other is all bs. its all a stupid sentiment everyone keeps searchin for vy well knowin that all they crave for is lust...love is for d weak to cover up their desires

Kido said...

How true... Very well written PJ :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ apocalypse:

hahahah lol...
:P

well very true..niway

:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ mayz:

Wat I made wasn't a baseless argument..I've seen it wth my eyes..

well
lust..people do crave for that..
But...I do not think..that is the only thing that keeps...a relationship...

Then in that case..y wud people get marry or get into a relationships at all...
...
Sex is important..and it becomes special only when You are with a person u love not wth any man/woman.

Priya Joyce said...
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Priya Joyce said...

@ mayz:TYPOS do bare wth it

Priya Joyce said...

@ kido:

thnx gal

aaj kal kya baat hei

Eid ka chand bane baihe ho :P

Mayz said...

lust in not jus sex...u r too young to understand its full implications

Priya Joyce said...

@ mayz:
I know wat lust is..it is craving for "flesh" immoderately...but I didn't think you wanted to stress upon the word "lust"

well anyway...
am not any young...anyway...

Keshi said...

**which can be similar or different

thats why I said it's neither..not 'necessarily' :)

Keshi.

Priya Joyce said...

@ keshi:

hmmmm...well ahhh!!

Mads said...

yeah its too...i'v seen so many couples being opposites...and they complement each other...so well :D

but why do i get attracted to people who are so much like me? :(
no wonder it doesnt work out :P