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Monday, 18 May 2009

In Love..


Yes I think I am...let me talk of a few other things first...

For the last few days..I've been worried..about a guy on orkut.
Yes the same guy I told you about.

He has been totally scaring me ...
I blocked him...but what is the use...he's been mailing me....and asking for reasons.
The problem is... he lives in the same city in which I live and to add to that..his brother studies in my college and I am sure..he'd try to make use of it.

I cannot quit orkut..as this is the best way Ican relate to my school friends :)


More honestly speaking I am scared of...guys coming after me..calling on my phone...
Its not because I am childish or something..but because..when any guy starts giving me such indications...I go on to think..many things..
Coz such guys project themselves as cool...and popular..every woman's man...
And I hate such guys. I hate guys..who are too popular.

And basically every girl(at least most of us) is very traditional at heart.
Traditional doesn't mean she starts thinking of marriage or she thinks of quitting her job and completely rely on her husband or love...
rather its..being the only girl in his life.

as Oscar Wilde says....
Men always want to be a woman's first love..Women have a more subtle instinct...what [they] like is to be a man's last romance.

Some relevance it has to what I am trying to say...

I am not a feminist but i firmly believe..that..girls have a clearer picture of their life partner tan guys.

When relationship alarms..
I think of is he going to be the same?? the typical man??

The reality is difficult to face...you cannot live in a dreamworld..of love..and when you face the reality..would he be the same??

there are many more questions..but can't mention them here ;)

I do not say i don't get attracted to any popular cool guy...../any guy...but basically it's the questions I ask myself....which..doesn't allow me to get into a relationship.

I do not know..why I am not able to write out completely what I feel..ahhhhhh!!!!!!!
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Daily Updates....

~~So this is where I confess...that I am not in love.....but I certainly like someone....It has been a long friendship with him...I have known him to be a very sensible person.....not shallow..an intellectual as I always preferred loves India..and he's on blogger ;).....and the best thing is.....he never told me about his achievements...never ever has boasted about it...but rather I found out.from my sources..
May be I a very frank girl as I am..won't be able to confess it to him.....and may be he also would be never able to say it.....I surely know it's more than a crush ;)

have I become a shy girl?? ;)
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~~then again....i've been struggling to say no to mummy every time she asks me to take meat....It has been a long time since i have left..it..but she's worried about my health....
well i have my own reasons for not taking non-veg...
hmmm
special thanx to all of you who wished my mom and dad..:)...

28 comments:

Praveen said...

I see a love triangle in the making :P

Puneet Sahalot said...

sooo... m the first one today... yeppp...!!!
hmm... wat to write...??
smtimes i wish if i cud fall in love.. ;)
then i feel like... it wud b smthng like a crush n nt anything else..
well.. life goes on.. crush...love...girlfriend...blah..blah...
:)

"and the best thing is.....he never told me about his achievements...never ever has boasted about it..."

thats really smthng worth appreciation.. u wont find much people who never wish to tell wat they hv achieved n wat they r..
they want to b like others..rather than to b 'different'

Puneet Sahalot said...

thoda late ho gaya... :(

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Dhanya said...

Ahhhh miss priya is in a very confusing situation huh ? :D

Mads said...

missing ur blog since a loooooooooooooooong time :(
ahaa...someone's in love.... ;) just be very careful and very sure abt what ur doing...coz u dont wanna get hurt, ryt? :-s

and i totally got it...even i hate guys who are popular n show off X-(
and good luck with handling that guy. threaten him or something that u will go to the police...

MEASON said...

Love is a promise, love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear.

ALL THE BEST

Keshi said...

ppl try and give so much meaning to Love and make it such a difficult thing to feel. I say Love is simple...it doesnt need all the bells and whistles, and all those twisted definitions. Love is.

:)

Keshi.

Harshita said...

If you love him, tell him... before someone else does. :)

I have the same opinion, I think at the core every woman is a typical woman...hehe... We love to be with men who are more into us and less into the world...

I loved the quote from Oscar Wilde... and the timing of the same in ur post.

Nanhi Pari, itna sochney ka nahi... jo dil boley kar deney ka... :) Love ya

Pallav said...

Ho gya hai tujko to pyar Priya re... Lakh kar le to inkaar priya reee.....

heheeh...
ohhooo...
Sombody is in love........

oyeeehoyeeeeee...

heheehhe..
waisey kaisa lagb rha hai..
do dshare with me haannn



Cheers :)
Pallav

swati said...

i think you shud tell him dear..liking n loving is not a sin dear..neithr it is such a complicated thing..its jus a beutifl feeling of ur heart..n im telling u aftr u tell him about ur feelings..u'll feel like heaven :)
so do make an effort...
remember tat song..
o priya o priya priya tumsa nahi koi priya..tu khush rahe...:)
take care dear..:)

Suree said...

thats the magic of love dear.... let him know abt it ,or else u may miss him later ;).

Hey i dont think eating veg only doing any harm to someone's health...


take care

urs
suree

yamini meduri said...

Ooooohh someone is in love....lets celebrate...heheheh...!!!!

Hey PJ tell him off yaar...dont be late...never think of tomorow when your today is all going fine..!!! who knows abt the tomorows existence..!!!

Come on yaar.....you love him...let him know atleast..!!!

and abt being a girl, yes you are very true...we do have a perfect picture abt how our man must be..may be this is why girls are strong enough while choosing...but these men are not less b anymeans...they decieve our senses..!!!

Suresh Kumar said...

for that orkut guy, just ignore him... Thats the best medicine...


Well... we need to call in sherlock holmes to find out this blogger whom you have fallen in love or started liking....

All I can say that love is a wondefull feeling and hurray to it... but girl, please be careful....so as not to hurt yourself....

I'll try 2 be truthful said...

sorry for being cheeky , but i have to do what any true blue kv girl would say when a friend writes/says about something like this .

ahem ahem
" aaaOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooo" :D :D

Ayushi said...

Well, I do not recommend such relationships because in here, people show you only what they want to, while a lesser attractive portion might be hidden away. So, be prepared for a shock anyday :D

Guys on here: Beware! It could be you :D

Pretty Me!! said...

good luck with all these confusions dearie !! i really liked your views here btw .. completely sensible :)

Chronicwriter said...

such a brave guy?

marry him...

note: i quit orkut when u sent a friends request to me

:p

chriz

MultiMenon said...

ooohhhh ohhhh oooohhhhh!!!! someone's in love now.. :) dreamy eyes,starry world..kolllaaammm!!! :)

Anyways,one quick tip.. :p Use ur brains to think and not ur heart coz the latter can end u in shit and I dun want u to even try it tht way.. :)

Btw,the stalker is still there huh??wait,ll get him out.. :)

Take care sissy.. :)

Nikhil

Arv said...

Have fun :)

deeps said...

thank you! :-)

oye veggi girl
looks like some butterflies are restless ...
but too early to say where they are going to find their rest or will flutter around only..

still early days lol .. i will wait, until you have better news for all of us ..
hopefully he has it all that you dreamed of ..and much more

being ignorent about why we are despite knowing (who) we are!!...
we are all here to realize that 'why' ...
it s unfortunate if we dont get there ...

Amal Bose said...

i think u shd say it to him, lover girl ;)

SMRITI said...

Quoting Ms Srivastava from the chat:

"Babyji dheere chalna...pyaar mein zara sambhalna" ;)

ANWESA said...

lil' priya,
i'v thot many tyms over ur post n now i'm here to reply.totally ignore d orkut guy,y dun u create a new orkut a/c ? n dis "mr.blogger"-if he fits d bill,i think u shud tell him.(i tell dat despite being totally traditional).u cant let ur fear rule over u.i wish i cud hav told sumthing better.but ur post left me pondering over d questions u raised.
smile dear!!!all ll b well..

Ayushi said...

The only line which I found philosophically sound and complete in Life in metro was:
"Take your chance, baby!" ;D

He can't eat you, and if he does, you can always have a bite back ;p

Karthik said...

You, a Miss and if you don't propose him you'll MISS him.. Miss Misses (Mrs) :P Sorry... Dint come in a flow!!

Vani said...

Aww..I think someone is in love here..Though u say u r not in luv. It certainly seems lyk luv. U better tell him PJ.. Or atleast give him the chance to know how u r feeling r8 now abt him. Der s no point in hiding ur emotions.

Well nyway ignore dat orkut guy. Such a crap he is :P

Loved dat Oscar Wilde quoate..:)

joiedevivre said...

pj what all is this m reading..u didnt tell em anything abt it...

you know if people hurt you badly..u did the same to me..
you have been goin thru this thing..i feel bad not being there to help you