We know that people value you in this world only on the basis of those "printed papers". Yet we (I)
speak of happiness being the ultimate.
We know relatives do not share the same relationship with you as they used to earlier on. Yet we feel they would.
We know that people like to be with just the beautiful (outwardly) people. Yet we say....beauty is at heart.
We know excelling academically means a lot. Yet we say what if we aren't able to do so?
We know people won't be humble enough to come and accept their mistake. Yet we try to make them understand.
But I also know "oru naalil naadhan enne villichu ekantha teerathe kondupoogum" [one day we all 'll be in the ultimate peace (dead)]
and yet we ......kill....quarrel...think of only ourselves (be selfish).. hurt....others......
WHy????????
47 comments:
This is such a great post Joyce. It just shows what a bunch of hypcrites we all r! No one can deny that they dun belong to any of those groups u mentioned here. We r all guilty of either all of em or some of em.
**We know people won't be humble enough to come and accept their mistake. Yet we try to make them understand.
That is so true! Thats just what I told a friend today. I told him that I dun expect ppl to u'stand me anymore. :) cos Im sick of trying to make others u'stand. It just doesnt work in a world where sometimes I refuse to u'stand others.
So it's best not to expect at all.
Keshi.
coz we r human beings-born wid errors-wen we realize the truth,we are no longer human-we r spirits.
wow!!bang on target..death the ultimate thing..has to happen..thn wats the point in wasting life in fights sadness..griefs..why not make ones life a quality life..full of good memories..
Hmm... Too many thoughts.... My mind system would have crashed... Lucky you....If you have got the answers, let me know :)
This girl is gaining real wisdom. U know knowledge helps make only a living while real wisdom helps make life.
Godd one....it's just that Humuns think of themselves and have lost or losing slowly their moral ideolaigies......
Sad...:)
Remeber not to take life serious...It's not permanant....:)
Superb post PJ. Each and every point was so true! Its very sad of humans to fight for nothing that is permanent in this world.
And I wonder if anyone realises that and even if they realise, they keep on doing all what you have listed. Human mind you know!!
Maybe because living in peace without any quarrels, makes life too simple, and less people <3 simplicity.
Quarrels at a smaller level, between friends and family help them to grow, but when the attain a bigger platform and everything..it sucks, cos innocent ppl are killed all in the name of deities and all tht..this probably happens cos some people have no faith in peace..or brotherhood.
what uve said here is absolutely true..
there is only a very very very few people who actually does these good deeds.. n at the same time there is only a very very very few people who does the opposite..
majority lies somewhere in the middle..
Superb post, i couldnt do anything bt node my head for wtever u wrote, its simply so true, though we hate to accept, somethings abt us nvr change though things around us r changing..
thought provoking one mate... loved it... cheers...
hieee priya...
frstly thanks 4 warm welcum u gv me...it was very sweet n encouraging thank you!
coming to the post....amazing!
u gave such a beautiful xpression to the sad reality of life....really we become shallow..we dont do a thing without expecting anythng in return...we say knowledge matters not marks bt at the end of the day we r just labeled as gud as r mark sheet is...everybody runs behind the the beauty outside which is so temporary...really we hv lost the essence of life...its time to get up...so that r inside doesn't die b4 r life terminates....
gr888 post....hope we all realise r mistakes...n change...b4 its too late!
thanks 4 d reality chek...
god bless!
We know that many friends fail to help when you are in real need. Yet we expect and get depressed every time they don't. <<< So well said Priya! I guess 'expecting' things lead to disappointment... almost always...
oye kya hua?
feel like singing 'manasa maiyle varoo'? :-)
chalo i shall join the chorus ..
you dont want the whole world to look tailor-made do you?
I don't judge people by their mark sheets.
Succh mentalities suck... Great to see u put it into words so well. :)
Cheers. :)
Nice post and a bit introspecting one ! But yes, the world does seems harsh though there are few kindred souls around. As always Optimism is the best attitude to hope for good things.
Nanhi Pari,
I will not hinder your growth as a person by suggesting sumthing here or answering this one... What I wud say is : Experience it... completely n absolutely... This is Life... and on every step you will grow more and learn more.
Love you kiddo
Very thoughtful, dear PJ. You know how someone said .. sometimes we expect more from others because we are willing to do that much for them. Expectations are a part of human nature, you cant suppress them, but what you can do is live your life at your best so that nobody would say that you didnt meet their expectations :)
nice message little joyce girl
one thing i always wanted to feel not to get depressed by little things and let go of the past...ur post is full of thoughts priya...it explains lot of errors in our nature...but still people dont except it as it goes...
one thing i wish to do is let go of lot of my feeling's and be bac to the happy me :)..
urs..hemu..
we still do because we hope and the world thrives on it... :)
That's a really nice message, PJ :)
Highly thought provoking!
Very well written :)
My thoughts have been killed yesterday activating my funny bone exponentially... :D
I dont expect so no depression :D
I am contemplating to takeover India's largest 'printed papers'=newspaper so that I can increase my brand value
Different relatives share different relations otherwise it would have called mama1, mama2 instead for mamas, mamis, chachas, chachis, cousins :D
I dont have a heart but I am sure that my brain is beautiful :D
If not able to=try again :)
I am the judge here, I alone can proclaim the offenders to be guilty of their mistakes :D
Dead? Everyone dead? What would I do then? The problems of immortality.....Huh :-?
perhaps we r human that why it happens..
n its our tendency to commit mistake n then learn from them....
Nice post which elicits to think..
Pallav
@ keshi:
thnx dear....yehe I guess so..at least I can't say i didn't run after anyone of these...
well we juss get tired of justifying u see...yet...wat has to happen happens :)
hugs
@ anwesa:
yehe and the sad part is we fail to learn from them..:(
thnx :)
@ swati :
haan re..wahi toh na..we nevr understand that :(
thnx :)
@ suresh:
my mind system somehow told me to spk it out :)
awww thnx..well that's true..and life is more important than living u see ;)
@ poshin:
yeh we the selfish beings..forget that fact.
:) thnx
@ saranya:
yes tat's it...even if we realize we keep doing the same:( tats sad..
thnx dear :)
@ crystal:
yeh sometimes such thngs help..i mean to know ourselves more..or rather to be strong...but most of the times..it doesn't.....well
yhe..many ppl do not go for peace and brotherhood..after all wat use is all that for a lay man ther r worried abt roti kapda and makaan..
:(
thnx :):)
@ amal:
yeha..true...and the ppl who r somewer in the middle r worse..coz they juss don't care as u once said in ur post..well Apathy wud be a correct word for it :)
thnx :):)
@ devil I
well yehe spot on....these r the things most of us hate to accept it..
thnx for ur comments :)
welcome here :)
@ Arv:
thnx da :):)
@ parzi:
thns dear..huggz...
well yehe the last point u made is so very correct i agree to it completely :)
thnx
@ dhanya:
and yet we go on doing that :(
thnx :)
@ deeps:
kindaa nothing gud happening tat's wat happened :(
hmm tat's romantic song i guess ;)
hehehe sure..do join it :P
@diya :
yehe sadly tat's the common mentality hmmmm...
gud tat u ren't in the crowd..
well thnx :)
@ prashant:
sometimes..i fail to be optimistic in these issues..yet if we gotto live here..we gotto "let things go" also
:) thnx :)
@ harshi:
well yehe at every step i'd learn more..and may be get into a habit of avoiding this..akhir jeena toh hei hi na :(
:)
awwww hugss
@ lena:
yehe at least we shud avoid making ppl feel wat we've been feeling :)
gud point
:) thnx hugs :)
hye am not able to comment on ur bloggy dear :(
@ chriz:
thnz dear :):)
@ hemzii:
yehe letting go truly does help..:)
yes i guess u shud do so :)
hugs
:)
@ raka:
yehe hope is one word tat keeps us going :)
@ kido:
thnx yaar :)
hugss...wer r u ;) ?
@ all wud reply later :)
@ quest:
hahaha lolz.. I mean i never thot u cud make it funny..
nihow..I do not agree wth tat brains thng :P
@ pallav:
yehe..yet many of us fail to learn tats reelly sad.
thnx buddy :)
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