Long post ....Disagreement wud be accepted..indifference won't be!!
If you are a woman you'd surely have to face a lot of problems in life(I know problems is not the correct word).
All women face...(now please do not come to argue with me on some stupid medical condition/deformity)
Every 28th day they(we) face a problem...after marriage(before too) many face a nine month old ache. They face another problem...and sometimes this crosses limits..this is nothing but eve teasing.
Some women face!!
Gender bias (most do ...not necessarily at home)..domestic violence...abuse at workplaces...many more.
In this male dominated society/world of ours...women have to face so much of injustice.
And I am sure...there will be only a few women who've never ever wished to be a male. The rest always did sometime or the other.
I too used to..(not now though) and not because of family at all. Because of some things I couldn't take.
There are some who still wish to be a male.
I have always dreamt of a good career...because with that only I'd be self dependent.(same category i fall in)
Name and Fame is secondary/or doesn't exist for me at all.
Well I've seen many women who proudly announce their achievements in their careers but such women are utter failures in relationships.
A woman who doesn't know how to manage relationships but is successful in career..is a failure in life.(vice versa also exists).
Do we ever take pride in saying "yes i know to cook so many things, I know how to manage my family".
These things appear to us as petty (tutch ...hindi ).
What I ultimately feel is when these women (failures at home) run in search of equality they are following the "men".
I mean when we shout loud about our achievements in career...have they seen men doing so?(now please do not bring in those chefs at 5 and 7 star Hotels as a comparison)
Do men also do the same??
Do they take pride in saying "heyy u know i learned so much of cooking/ home management"////????(here I am not saying that what women does /knows to do is cooking.... it's just an example.)
Isn't it a kind of insecurity??
Do these men have that?? Do they?? Do they feel..if they don't learn cooking what would happen of them??
While we feel a lot. Feminists are actually MCPs..They run after what men do. They announce proudly about their achievements in career.They think to be equal they need to do what men have been doing.
This isn't equality anyway...This is running after just one thing...and this is actually petty.
Another thing that comes in is...economics/money....Is is all because of money??
The importance of a man as compared to a woman is more just because he earns money??
These are some incomplete thoughts /doubts I've been struggling with!!
This post is for all men who do not value the woman/women in their life..and also for women who do not value womanhood..
Though i know womanhood isn't limited just to the family.
As if..... it was equality then men would /we would prefer to be hungry every Sunday and half of Saturday.
We /other/any..woman works extra..yet her work is labelled "petty". Why??