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Wednesday, 3 June 2009

Friend....ship.....!!!!

Whenever a friend (preferably of the opposite sex)  starts caring more...or gets closer...why do we suspect love??

Is love the next step of friendship??

Or perhaps the world has become so mean that people no more expect such intense care or affection from a person who is just a friend?

Isn't it the failure of the beautiful relationship called friendship??

46 comments:

ANWESA said...

mayb frndship is d 1st step 2 love.
yes,i think ppl dun xpect intensity of frndship esp b/w opposite sexes.

Saranya said...

Yeah people do start suspecting if they see such closer relationship between opposite sex. I guess, it is so because its a commonly encountered thing that such closer relationships end up in love -mostly (not always). But not the failure of friendship.
And yeah, of course, friendship can be a step to love. :))

Amal Bose said...

in most cases, yes.. they suspect love though it isnt always true
i think such an act shows you how less you know about the person (if its not true)
but friendship can be a first step towards a relationship
the last two lines ..
thats something that needs to be thought abt a lot.. n sadly i think its true

Suresh Kumar said...

Not all friendship can be said to end in love..

But for love to have a firm standing, there need to be a good friendship between the two. If love is purely based on looks, lust etc etc it may not stand the test of time...

Suresh Kumar said...

Well... Sometimes when we meet someone who really cares in this bad world, we find hope and hope is always the begining of love.... thus people just jump into love without even thinking whether it cud be friendship or not.....

Arv said...

only time would tell :)

take care... cheers...

Hemanth Potluri said...

Friendship does not have restrictions ever...

Love has so many restrictions and people get possessive abt their partner ...

friendship leads to love in some cases but love can never end up as friendship :)...


i do prefer to be a friend then loving :P..may be some day everyone falls in love that day u wont see the diff between frndship and love...

so love and friendship are way lot different :)..

urs..hemu..

Harshita said...

Hindi Movie isshtyle : Pyaar ka pehla kadam bhi dosti aur aakhiri bhi :)

Pretty Me!! said...

it depends on ur perception and understanding... once both persons are clear with the expectations, its a fair sailing in friend-ship :) after all friends love you most !!

yamini meduri said...

i dont find anything like that...friendship is always there...but it depends on how we think and how we undertand eachother.!!!

Jis Thomas said...

Friendship is divine.....it is the sneaking passion btw 2 hearts....I read your blog fully.Like it so much...May God bless you.........

Suree said...

friendship and love , both are so pure...

friendship may lead to love sometimes.

people may feel if two people of opposite sex are affectionate,are lovers.

this direction of thinking should change

Aditya said...

Well theres no doubt that friendship is in fact the first step for love.
But i dont think that peopleare always so mean no tto expect more intense care n love from a friend. Actually it depends on the thinking of the person.But yeah , the place i live in , people actually are that mean. They dont understand friendship.

Phoenix said...

hmm i have been in this situation so i know just what you mean.. i think the world and its perception of something as innocent as friendship has made it a bad place to live in...

love can be a natural progression to friendship but not always can care and concern in a friendship be seen as LOve...

Tara said...

I don't think so, may be a few people think so but definitely not all. I mean I have many guy friends and such a thing has never crossed my mind really. It's sad though, a guy and a girl can be best friends and not necessarily lovers. :)

Chriz said...

you have all the tendencies to fall in love.. tell the good news soon

Chriz said...

to answer ur question-


usually lust forms a major junk of friendship/love (or whatever term we give to that)/..

the human brain always revolves around the central theme called lust.. thats is inborn in every individual..

baakhi aal bakwaas...

90% of people will disagree to this.. the rest 10% speak the truth

Priya Joyce said...

@ anwesa:

well yeh..true..

no not that way...i used opposite sex..coz..they only fall in love.
well wat i meant was..y don't people think friendship can be so intense..like wat we hav wwen we love :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ saranya:

i believe tat is failure of frndship..as...frndship is so very intense a relationship..then y always we need a higher degree assurance there
:(

well i liked ur first point :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ amal:

yeh it's true..ppl do not expect frnds to be so loving ahhh!!

Priya Joyce said...

@ suresh:

yeh we need frndship for love surely..the second point is so true..

Priya Joyce said...

@ suresh:

well yeh tats the point..we hav stopped expecting love from frnds..

instead we search for a new relationshp :(

Priya Joyce said...

@ arv:

yeh..and it's telling ahhh!

Priya Joyce said...

@ hemz:

yehe...frndship is much better...:P:P

Priya Joyce said...

@ harshi:

hmmm...shayad..par...log dosti mein pyar kyu dhoondhte hei ??

Priya Joyce said...

@ pratibha:

yeh frnds love u most..well wat to do..ppl don't trust frnds nymore..they need higher degree..assurance :(

Priya Joyce said...

@ yamini:

well i believe friendship and love both r gr88...but y do ppl trust love more...or y do they try to give the name love to frndship??

Priya Joyce said...

@ jis:

yeh it's gr8..or i'd say it was gr8..now ppl specially a guy gal frndship...the closer they get they name it love ahh
:(

Priya Joyce said...

@ suree:

well sadly...the person himself/herself..feels frndship at higher level shud be named love ahhh!!

Priya Joyce said...

@ aditya:

yehaa...welll niway..i'd call it being worldly wise :(

sadly

Priya Joyce said...

@ raka:

sadly ppl today..don't value frndship..not the dirty way..but they no more trust frnds ahhh!!

Priya Joyce said...

@ Tara:

well yeh...preferably a guy/gal frndship..since love can be brot into the pic..well it happens in a gal gal frndship...too ..there they may give some other name if not love...aisa hai..logon ko dosti pe vishwaas hi nahi raha :(

Priya Joyce said...

@ chriz:

well....may be...But..i am not sure still

it may be like just a like.

Priya Joyce said...

@ chriz:

i thnk u and mayz hav decided to battle over that ;)

nyhow i do not agree...and I am not scared to say tat i do not agree...not even scared of ur statement
""90% of people will disagree to this.. the rest 10% speak the truth""

अनिल कान्त : said...

Actually it depends

मेरी कलम - मेरी अभिव्यक्ति

Keshi said...

To be honest, I'd find it quite hard to be JUST FRIENDS with someone like John Abraham lol!

jokes apart, sometimes the attraction plays games between friends. but yeah, I do hv male friends...just platonic friends :) It's how each individual sees it.

Keshi.

Kido said...

It really doesn't matter what the world thinks... What matters is what you think...

It's people's failure not the relationship's...

Chota muh aur badu baat :D

Tickled pink said...

yes it is the general tendency ang i guess it cant be changed.only those two persons involved in that close friendship know the depth of their relationship.Good thought.

Priya Joyce said...

@ Anil:

hmmm yeh it depends...but generally its the way i said :)

welcome here
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ keshi:

heheheh lol

well yeh.."just frnds" tats special too :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ kids:

surely ..u r correct...but sometimes..wat world things also matters specially wen we live in a society.

yeh..true..sahi hei re...it's ppl's failure not relationships'.

hahaha

Priya Joyce said...

@ tickled pink:

well yeh it can't be changed..

and ppl wud continue to suspect love in "intense frndship"

ahhh

thnx dear :)

and welcome here
:)

Sam said...

it depends from case to case PJ DJ. For many friendship is a step before love. It all depends how good the relationship is and hw well the 2 personas take it.

And if its just friendship then too no issues if one of the friends is caring. its just normal.

Priya Joyce said...

@ sam:

yeha it depends par generally log aisa hi sochte hei..

they do not expect such care from fnds :)

Mads said...

good question..and i personally feel love is the next step to friendship..of course not for all of them..but i need my guy to be my best friend and i would always fall for the one who understands me the most....
its not the failure of friendship i guess...its just one step ahead..and some lucky ones are blessed with that :)

Dhandal said...

friends can go an extra step ahead and do anything for you. when there is an extra effort involved you suspect. the love comes as a part of great friendship but you take it other wise. this can do damage to your friendship, but not always.