I prefer to be alone all the time.
Don't know why I think a lot about what's happening around...and so on.
I sing sad songs...the people failed in love sing (have developed a special love for it all of a sudden).
Well I never ever thought that my mom was keeping a close watch on this behaviour of mine.
(UNTIL)
Yesterday..while I was lying on my bed..thinking about something...mom handed me a magazine and pointed out a particular page.
(a religious magazine).
I took it..and when I began reading....this is what I found...
"When I was doing my final year B.Tech, I fell in love. It was that boy who approached me first and expressed his love for me.. But he has totally changed now. I tried to forget him but I failed miserable. Everyday I am shedding tears...thinking about him. Kindly advise me."
There was a big answer to it...well that's not the matter.
I didn't ask my mom neither did she say anything.
I've been thinking(struggling) to find an answer to this from the last night...
Does she think I have failed in love...or something similar has happened to me??
Can you help??
42 comments:
i guess she didnt mean anything..and just showed it to u...just to make u a mature person and showed what happens to some people who fall in love...maybe to prevent u from the same mistake or something....
and..i guess if ur frustrated and bored u shud distract urself..rather than feel sad or sorry for urself..hai na? :)
well i am sure your mom must be thinking you are upset about your past love or something. Its better you make it clear to her whatever's the matter.
But anyways has something like that actually happened with you or you just like to be lonely? did you fall in love?
well! i like to be lonely. I've kinda fallen in love with loneliness.
yes it u think u have been thinking abt love ur mom caught u
its diff to hide from parents and mothers are always close and good observer. it u think its not the scene pls clear it out from wit ur mom. she mite be worried abt u
ur mother might have seen u really upset n well might ve thought to help u..
thats all..
its really hard to hide everything from ur parents especially mothers. they spot everything ;)
just talk to her if u feel like.. it might help
Mads opinion... you must be just starting out your college... she wants to make sure you dont get hurt by any jerk-offs...
Sad songs... I just love them... There's one song minnale sung by SPB music by A.R... I officially told someone, I wanna fall in love end up broken hearted just so i could sing that song with genuine feel... sad thing, it never happened... :D
No worries Priya...Mo juss wanted to tell you to be careful.....she is not worried about you my dear...she knows what you are but yes, she i worried about the age you are in, she knows it too...!!!
and try not to listen to those sad songs yaar....listen to some happy happy songs...they are good to heart...!!!
*keep smiling Nanhi Pari*
ask her straight what she thought..
a personal straight talk with mom always helps..
after all she is your mom and you have every right to talk openly with her
hmm here is what i think...
i think she thought u were going through a rough patch for whatever reasons and you need motivation to spring back to your older self.. thus instead of being preachy by advising you she brought you some advice that was ready at hand, which was indirect yet apt...
take a trip :)
I don't think she meant anything really, just a slight indication, may be she was just testing the waters and checking how you react in such a situation. They are moms yaar, they know us better than we do! :)
hmm that phase of frustration occurs often to evryone, she may hae misunderstood it... ofcourse its a good MOM thinking...
take care sweety, evrything will be fine
*hugs*
urs
suree
its gonna be alrite...you are just worrying too much....and moms are good at knowing what their kids are going through
mothers r mothers.mayb de hav sum kinda x-rays dat penetrate ur mind all d tym.mayb she feels ur upset abt "failed love" either in past/present/future..future suits best.
Mom is always your best friend and she will understand you even if you have made silence your language...
She will always look ways to improve you even if you reach the middle age...
Your mama probabaly wanted to make sure you are aware that such thngs too happen!
Maybe she didn't mean anything, maybe she just wanted to tell you that if you're facing something like this, go knock on her door, and ask her about it, cos she may have gone thru something like this, or knows someone.. and she'll tell you how to move out of the oblivion.
tc!
Yeah, she has presumed so, clarify it out! :P
Oh don't worry Pj. It might be because she just wanted make sure/tell you indirectly that you should not make any decisions just like that and that you are aware of such things. A typical thing that all mums do :) You are 18 now... so you are matured enough to make the appropriate decisions so just be good as you always are. :))
Don't worry too much about it. Cheer up!
Ummm the last post was the prelude and here you seem to have hit the bull’s eye.
What surprises me is that you are bothered about what ur mom is thinking about the whole thing….though she has her reasons to worry about you
what about you?
That same question you raise here I would like to ask you and
of course the exact reason for your tumbling mood …
Hey which is that magazine?
@ mads:
haan re..shayad...well I am trying to be more..happy..i mean out of frustration..and boredom
show me one person who has succeeded in love
@ aditya:
yhe i guess u r rite..well i do need to clear it to her..trying to find a correct tym...
nopes i juss am in love wth lonliness..nothing like love failure :)
@ nidhi:
yeh i think tats the best solution..well no nothing as love failure..but yeh i've been thinking of similar things ;)
@ amal:
yeh i need to talk abt wat she thot..am ok juss donno wat happened to me ;)
@ nirmal:
well am going to second yr this tym :P
yeh may be she wanted to help me as she thot something cud happen in near future ;)
hahaha...ppl wanna fall in love u r juss the opposite :P
and yeh welcome here :):)
@ yamini:
heheh yeh cud be tat way also...yeh my age :P:P
well donno i've developed interest in those songs :P
awwwww :):)
@ chriz:
yeh that wud help...:P
the scary part is my mum is gettin clever day by day ;)
@ Raka:
hmmmm..well that could also be a reason..I sit and dream all day that nyone cud mistake it to be...as depression...
yeh it was apt..
:)
@ arv:
hmmmm..yeh seems tat i need it badly ;)
@ tara:
my mom is getting clevaa day by day ;)
@ suree:
i think I need to clear the misunderstanding ;)
yeh thnx :):)
@ freelancer:
yehe may be ...well lets see wat she does next or rather i shud talk :):)
@ anwesa:
yeh and i guess her brain is gettin sharper day by day :P
well well future...hmmm ho sakta hei ;)
@ suresh:
well true..this tym she has mistaken :P am not failed in love..;)
yehe..true..for them we r kids even at 100 :P
@ ki:
well yeh..i didn't think abt it :P
so am saved from a straight talk :P
@ aayushi:
yehaa..This cud be a possibility too . Well i shud say ..u all hav some gud guesses for my prob...
well nihow..i seem to be like that..:P:P
@ diya:
tat's the difficult part ;)
@ saranya:
yeh dear..it cud be an indirect message too...I gotto find answers or talk to her to clear it out
:):)
thnx dear :)
@ deeps:
heheh last post was prelude..well y do u feel so da..??
well yeh she has all reasons to worry.....wat is the apt correct reason i need to find ;)
lol
well well..my mood is ok now..the cause is nothing bur boredom :P
:):)
@ mayz:
there r many ..on both the sides..:):)
ths is somethng called Communication Gap...
u must talk to her once
clearly...
Pallav
pj i wud jus say tat she is a mother dear..n which mothr wud like to see her daughter in a sad or low mood..this was her way of helping u out..it was jus a way of showing her concern..towards u..:)
take care :)
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