Relationship...with whom??

1.You love someone...but u do not to see that same love in her/his eyes.

2.Someone loves you..you do not love her/him.

Whom would you be likely to get into a relationship with??

my doubts!!

1. If he doesn't love me...then why should i force him to be with me??

2. If he loves me and I don't .....then won't that "love" factor be missing..??(Would I be able to give the same to the relationship as him/he does?)

I need ur points of views on this....

"Hi this is Anto"

Cell phone had been switched off for a few hours. I checked for missed calls. Found some. Dialled the first number. Unknown though.

"Hi who's this?"

"This is someone of course".

"I saw ur missed call. Now please tell me who's this?"

"Can't you recognize the voice?"

" What a stupid question?"

"You forgot me?"

"who's this?"

"Hey priya..this is ur childhood buddy...Anto" (My friend Antony...I call him Anto)

(CHK THIS TO KNOW MORE ABT THIS GUITARIST I fell in love with at a very small age ;)) and his childhood pic :P

"Edo...thaan oh... U scared me."

Later that day....

Mom asked me "did you get a call fom Anto".

I said yes...and I was going to tell her that :P

Well she said "U needn't. i know"

"He's doing his Graduation...he'd be in the final year B.Tech now....if you meet him that would be good"

I just felt that why is mom telling me so much about him :P

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Something hurt me badly just then...it was my hair clip....

Sadly it was all a dream :P

dreams abt this Anto what's cooking :P:P

ps:) scheduled it :P

we know all ..yet....

We know that many friends fail to help when you are in real need. Yet we expect and get depressed every time they don't.

We know that people value you in this world only on the basis of those "printed papers". Yet we (I)

speak of happiness being the ultimate.

We know relatives do not share the same relationship with you as they used to earlier on. Yet we feel they would.

We know that people like to be with just the beautiful (outwardly) people. Yet we say....beauty is at heart.

We know excelling academically means a lot. Yet we say what if we aren't able to do so?

We know people won't be humble enough to come and accept their mistake. Yet we try to make them understand.

But I also know "oru naalil naadhan enne villichu ekantha teerathe kondupoogum" [one day we all 'll be in the ultimate peace (dead)]

and yet we  ......kill....quarrel...think of only ourselves (be selfish).. hurt....others......

WHy????????

25 is me ;)

I'd been tagged for it on 15th of March 2009 by dearest..friend..Saranya. Thanx for tagging me dear...and so so sorry for delaying it for almost 3 months.

I have to write 25 random things about me. So I think it can in one way be called narcissism. lol

Well so I begin here..

1. I do not believe that truth has to be bitter always (though some truths are) . There are some true things about everyone that are very sweet. But some people who like to see only the bad things in others use this "truth is always bitter" thing as a handle.

2. I think I am very honest. I speak/write what I feel/felt. Sometimes when I feel that my honesty could hurt anyone I do not say anything. That's better. But I also feel that I hav changed a bit and now I have started hurting people.

3. I love my parents very much. I respect them out of love and not out of fear.

4. I do not just believe in God I know there is God. Well whatever the world says I do what my heart says in this case. Somethings cannot be proved by "reason". Though many things can be.

5. I get scolded almost daily for dropping my tea, water or juice on the floor. I actually keep it and dream for a long time lol. Scoldings also come for..drinking water straight from the bottle and not pouring it into the glass. Now i have my own bottles so that i do not dirty other bottles :P:P

6. I like to give out my stupid smile when my dad jokes about my crushes (uncountable in number :P). When he sees Ponting or any other crush of mine on TV he says "priya didn't he call you or mail you ...or didn't you ask him why wasn't he in the IPL?"

I laugh a lot when he says such things ;) 

7. I love animals. I do not like to hurt them. So I became a vegetarian. Well I sometimes feel bad when I kill an ant...ahhhh

8. I've had very few friends..real friends..i mean. Because only some have remained the same always. Some very close one who understand me. It's quite difficult to do so :P

9. I do somethings in haste but when I realize I was wrong I never delay to say  a sorry or accept things in public.  Though now I prefer to be silent.

10. Sometimes when mom and dad scold me. I do not feel sad. Because I think ultimately...the strong bond between my parents even if its just an agreement that I was wrong only keeps the family going. Because sometimes parents do not agree and one parents supports the child coz of love.

11. We all  have some ideals some beliefs some principles. My one principle is "obeying the rightful authority" There is a lot of pride in that. Even more than not listening or obeying anyone.

12. I love India very much. I'd never ever like to go and settle in any foreign country. But yes, I would surely like to study abroad. I hate the education system of India. It makes me hate studies.

13. I do not like selfish people. People who just care about their money , priorities and needs. I  a single child have always been taught to share. I think I have kept that quality till date.

 

14. yeah as all I too feel jealous. But I have something inside me that checks it and so very soon I am out of it. I usually feel jealous about intellect ;)  well well one thing I never ever got jealous about is beauty :P:P (some people know the reason too :P)

15. I simply love travelling. Specially to my hometown. It's great to meet people during the journey. I really have a lot of fun with people travelling with us.

16. I do not have any dream to make a lot of money to buy things and so on. The dream is to see mom and dad happy  and to help the less fortunate with whatever I have. Happiness means a lot to me. A lot!!

17. I do not know why but I am very sensitive. I get hurt very easily. But then somehow I get out of it soon too.  I sense..(may be misunderstand) if people behave differently. Hmmm!!

18. My first serious crush was Rahul. You all know about it :P

19. I love horror films and used to watch it from the time I was 5.

20. I sing a lot at home. Sometimes I hear people singing after me from the neighbourhood. lol

21. I was very naughty as a kid. So very naughty. I used to create blunders every single day...the funniest of them being dropping dried clothes from the terrace on the people walking on the road. My partner in crime was Ankit :P

22. I say stupid things in sleep that too in such loud volume that my mom and dad wake up with it. :P This happens when I am frustrated..or happy :P. When I was in tenth I revealed the name of one of my crushes...:P:P

23. I am not good at bargaining. I buy things at the MRP...Jaago grahak jaago :P:P

24. I laugh a lot. Sometimes even get out of control. ;)

25. I sleep a lot. Sleep like a pothe (buffalo) :P

My God I completed it. I was out of points about myself :P

I'll not be tagging ......any one...in particular...anyone wanting to do this can take it up.

Thnx once again Saranya for tagging me :)

Can You help??

The last few days have really been very exhausting. This brings frustration...boredom and so on.

I prefer to be alone all the time.

Don't know why I think a lot about what's happening around...and so on.

I sing sad songs...the people failed in love sing (have developed a special love for it all of a sudden).

Well I never ever thought that my mom was keeping a close watch on this behaviour of mine.

(UNTIL)

Yesterday..while I was lying on my bed..thinking about something...mom handed me a magazine and pointed out a particular page.

(a religious magazine).

I took it..and when I began reading....this is what I found...

"When I was doing my final year B.Tech, I fell in love. It was that boy who approached me first and expressed his love for me.. But he has totally changed now. I tried to forget him but I failed miserable. Everyday I am shedding tears...thinking about him. Kindly advise me."

There was a big answer to it...well that's not the matter. 

I didn't ask my mom neither did she say anything.

I've been thinking(struggling) to find an answer to this from the last night...

Does she think I have failed in love...or something similar has happened to me??

Can you help??

Friend....ship.....!!!!

Whenever a friend (preferably of the opposite sex)  starts caring more...or gets closer...why do we suspect love??

Is love the next step of friendship??

Or perhaps the world has become so mean that people no more expect such intense care or affection from a person who is just a friend?

Isn't it the failure of the beautiful relationship called friendship??

Love(ly) relationships!!

Relationships is what the world lives on.

Relationship with parents....relationship with friends....relationship with teachers......relationship with every person you meet....

And then relationship with the person you love.

One of the many special relationships indeed.

When many people talk about "love" relationships.....they look out for similarities in their..."special someone".

I do not say similarities aren't essential.

They are very very essential.

But with similarities... complementarity is also an essential.

My dad...an intellectual...and a person...who cannot be called very worldly wise.

But what about my mom....she's outgoing..and very very practical.

This works out like a lock into the key.

Similarities are very essential......but complementarities are which make the relationship of a man and a woman(the so called complementary...beings) a success.