Specially daughters like me...they just put their dads in fix...
If I start writing about all the silly questions i've asked my dad...then I'd better have to write an epic.
Well anyway I'd give a small version of pj's questions to her dad... n mind it some of the questions could be really (I dun have a word :P)
At the age of some 9 or 10...I had the habit to secretly read my mommy's magazine..
and yeh I used to find the words that used to be real confusing.
if I ask mom then I'd get one answer..."I dunno" (tat's wat she told me if she didn't wannaa explain)
Then dad was the best ever option for me to ask "crazy things".
I once asked my dad...wat does "virginity" mean??
And surprisingly he answered me. Yeh of course he told me something what i could understand only. But today when i look ito it I am grateful that he answered :P
I remember one fine day i told my dad "daddy am a woman today" hahah how silly but am really very free with him. I just dun thik twice before telling things to him while with mom it's different.:P
Once recently I asked him...
Daddy...how can i look sexy??
He asked why I wanted to look sexy?
I didn't have an answer :P
Then wat i heard was really an insight like for me..
"Pri..dear..I think you should never try to look like something/someone. It should rather be evident what you are. I am sure there would be someone who'd adore you for what you are.
And if you cover up the real yourself..then you might miss that..person.
And moreover you are what you are...you cannot live a lie..for whole life . But then yeh I dun find anything bad in you looking sexy".
My papa n me..we discuss anything and everything that is in this world. About sex, about love, about life, about marriage, about college, about guys.. everything ..
he tells me a lot of things he experienced as a guy at college and school.
Once I was just arguing about how much women face and all cos of the eve teasers.
He says.."once I was standing in a bus..an suddenly the driver put brakes...and I collided with a woman standing just in front. And she gave me real evil looks"
He says he really felt bad ...For being blamed for what he didn't do.
Well then's when I realized...yeh many such cases do exist.
He shares experiences of gals he liked when he was young...
He says there was a girl in the college next to his boys' school...(St Micheal's Kannur)
He used to go there daily to just get a glimpse of her...hahaha...(she'd once asked his name n h said Denzil..she asked Denzil what ..he remained silent..N so from them she called him Denzil Nothing n he used to love it hahah)
All he did when he was in his 9th grade...
Well..When parents share many incidents of their lives I too feel the confidence that i too can share anything with them...specially my dad...
Moms get worried...
Once Dad and I sit and start arguing then mom knows that now to get them (us) out of it is kind of a hopeless case :P