ps:)Here Ideal means..ur dream partners and not the idealistic ideal..
We all have our ideal life partners....but do you really think love happens or will happen to the ideal partners we all have in mind?
I really don't think so...Now that I don't think so..Its kind of obvious that you would ask me for reasons.
Yes the reason is what I see at home. My parents' was a love marriage..
yes they weren't each others ideal partners..
Dad is an introvert but mum talks a lot..she just brings back life into you with her talk sometimes...
Mum is a person who is chirpy she has a very good sense of humor too..but I should say that dad is kind of intellectual types he doesn't talk much doesn't express much of his emotions..ye he jokes once in a blue moon...lol
How they met..don't no how..Dad a Hans Raj College (Delhi) product while Mum studied in some unknown college of Kerala...its like it was already destined all had been planned earlier...
Dad and mom both say they never ever thought in their wildest or weirdest dreams that they are going to be together...Ha! it all just happened!!
So what I say is its better not to have ideals in your mind...you'd be disappointed...
53 comments:
Yeah agree.
Its always gr8 to go with the flow and leave it to destiny and time.
I am a big fan of 'Seredipity' anyways so I believe it all comes to you when it has to.:)
I like the personal touch you gave to this post.
Stay happy
Harshita
who is an "ideal" partner? what is "ideal"?
partners , i understand..
and good partners , i understand
but ideal partners.. mmmm. reserv ations
lol @ sawan
he is allergic to the word ideal :D :D
nice post sweety :)
wat do u deal with an ideal anyway...put it up in ur drawing room... lol
ha but nor can you feel elated :)
priya dear....
its marvelous the way love is explained in ur words..:)...love is never planned may be sometimes we think its planned but...it should happen my a look of eye...and i am waiting for the perfect look :P..heheh...
superb post dear pri :D...
urs..hemu..
well,thats wat is called fate.i really beliv 2 ppl r 2gether only due 2 "kismet konnexion"..not d movie,but its all pre-planned..
they say..kaisey kaisey ram milaye jodi..well,i'm also riding wedding waves des dez,my elder frnds of course,not me..he he he..
expectations are the cause of disappointments. This is true whether in the case of ideal partners or any other thing. I don't think there are ideal partners. What really matters is how you can make your partner an ideal partner.
BTW
****unknown college of Kerala
You too brutooo. You r disgracing kerala. You could've asked your mom about the name of the college.
ini ithu pole okke ezhuthiyal thallu medikkum, parcel aayitengilum njan ayachu tharum. one bucket full of thallu
LOL
Its all about timing..
:)
hey who knows one day u might get swept off ur feet too and u d not even kno kya hua........
there is never thing called ideal...its just abt the person wth whom u click and its natural than being forced.......
getting me ?
and then u d keep thinking ki bhiya yeh kya ho gaya........
Nicely written yaar PJ! Yes, as they say couples are made in heaven and meet on Earth! So, in a way, it is all planned! :) What would be the fun of an ideal bond na? And waise bhi, who will define "ideal"? What seems to be ideal now, may not be tomorrow, it's ever changing...
Perhaps, you need things to spice up life...ups and downs, changing times, changing places...in the game called life! So, hanging on to certain ideals, will deprive us of the fun in it! :)
Some still follow trial and error method. They meet many until they finally meet the one meant for them.
You can't have standard specifications like you do have for inventory.
Definitely ideal partners is a imaginary concept fit for the bollywood movies.
Liked what thinktank had to say
but still, its good to have a small picture in your mind:D
though its better never to compare your partner with the ideal you had in my mind
Hmmm, thats tru! Predictions or anticipation will not always work!
you know i grew up with this notion of ideal man in life
but now when im all grown up, with a 4 year old relationship to handle i think thats the biggest mistake ive ever done
there is nothing called ideal or perfect, if we keep that notion alive then when we meet the guy we want to be with it becomes difficult because he may not be tailor made for you, no one is; but he comes closest to what you percieve as perfect. the sooner you belive the better it is.
lovely post...ur sure mature for a 17 yr old :-)
well...it just happens...when u least expect it...
i hv my ideal guy in mind...dunno when i'll get him, or will i ever get him :P
im leaving it to destiny :-)
So very true. When it happens it happens!
i agree to every single word u hav mentioned here priya....its best when u r nt expecting n all of a sudden luck decides to shine on u....tht is the beauty of destiny....we try to forcefully write the script of our love lives...the way we want it to be...while god may nt hv planned it the way we want...good post...good to discover ur blog...
@ harshita:
thanx dear...
Yupp destiny has to ultimately decide..
:)
@ sawan:
I meant dream partner..wat we perceive..
@ chriz:
hey all I meant was the partner we perceive to be our husband/wife.
and not the idealistic one..k
:)
@ lukky:
yupp it seems so
thanx dear
:)
@ farah:
hehe Ideal is the dream partner and not the idealistic ideal...
@ vish:
plz clear the reason to me...
@ hemzii:
he look..cool!!
that is hope u get tat magical look soon..
@ anwesa:
hey that true ..destiny rules..
@ aneesh:
hey yes true
I agree..i hope u mean dream partner by ideal.
ayyo thallu. appum njaan evide thallu sveegarikkan erunaal alle..lol
@ vinz:
ye ye tat matters too
:)
@ buzzz:
oops I think all have misunderstood the word ideal..i mean I put it their as dream partners..not the idealistic ideal..
ye One day I hope to be swept off in luv...
:P
@ buzzz:
yupp got u..correct..
@ Tara:
**What seems to be ideal now, may not be tomorrow, it's ever changing...
tats cumpletely true..agreed
thanx
:)
@ suresh:
oops here Ideal meant..the dream partners..and not idealistic ideals..
I hope u'll hav another opinion on the post after this..
@ praveen:
yupp tats true some perception shud be there..
@ saranya:
yesss
:)
:)
@ Raka:
that's a beautiful comment ..it makes my point more clear
thanx dear
@ Mads:
hey thanx
Yupp same here donno if I'll get him ever or not..lol
@ pecos:
thanx dear
:)
@ sandeep :
hey thanx for those lovely words...
destiny is wat ultimately happens..
welcome here
:)
this would never work, just forget me
There is only one happiness in life -- to love and to be loved. No mater what, No matter who, Love happens in a blink of an eye!! I mentioned in my new post these lines
"A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever."
true...
@ clover:
wat do ya' wanna say?
@ karthik:
those are reely beautiful lines dear..
:)
you have priorities in life, yours and mine are different, our worlds and lives are different.
and nothing ever made me feel so low and made me feel less self-respect
you love making fun of it all.
i just think you are not the good guy.
so it would never work.
i love purity. you love money.
irreconcilible differences, that's how you say it in your country, right¿
@ clover:
first of all I am not a guy ...
then again its a post saying dream partners don't work but destined do ...
I don't understand wer do I and You come from..Its a general post and not a personal..one
Then again about purity and money...do u know me to say all that?
I guess yu didn't understand the stuff in the post..I request yu to read once more...
babe,"like charges always repel..
and its the unlike ones wich attract..."
btw,wen it cums to love,needn be tht things are gotta be in perfect synchro..it works otherwise too..its basically a connmection of the minds if u ask me... :)
nice post!! :)
haha.. when you claimed in your discalaimer what ideal meant in this post, i was like haha.. cool planned one indeed. yes love sometimes happen that way.. good one joyce girl
@ multimenon:
yes very true I agree
thanx
@ chriz:
heheh lol
not planned re
u all misunderstood me
perhaps the word was rong
lol
tats a new name..
lol
I agree...dun hv partner CRITERIA...just dun expect too much.
having said that, Im still single LOL!
Keshi.
@ keshi:
hey then better hav a criteria..lol
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