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Wednesday, 5 November 2008

Its all planned...even LOVE..is!!


ps:)Here Ideal means..ur dream partners and not the idealistic ideal..


We all have our ideal life partners....but do you really think love happens or will happen to the ideal partners we all have in mind?

I really don't think so...Now that I don't think so..Its kind of obvious that you would ask me for reasons.

Yes the reason is what I see at home. My parents' was a love marriage..

yes they weren't each others ideal partners..

Dad is an introvert but mum talks a lot..she just brings back life into you with her talk sometimes...

Mum is a person who is chirpy she has a very good sense of humor too..but I should say that dad is kind of intellectual types he doesn't talk much doesn't express much of his emotions..ye he jokes once in a blue moon...lol


How they met..don't no how..Dad a Hans Raj College (Delhi) product while Mum studied in some unknown college of Kerala...its like it was already destined all had been planned earlier...

Dad and mom both say they never ever thought in their wildest or weirdest dreams that they are going to be together...Ha! it all just happened!!

So what I say is its better not to have ideals in your mind...you'd be disappointed...

54 comments:

Harshita said...

Yeah agree.

Its always gr8 to go with the flow and leave it to destiny and time.

I am a big fan of 'Seredipity' anyways so I believe it all comes to you when it has to.:)

I like the personal touch you gave to this post.

Stay happy
Harshita

sawan said...

who is an "ideal" partner? what is "ideal"?

Chriz said...

partners , i understand..

and good partners , i understand

but ideal partners.. mmmm. reserv ations

lukkydivz said...

lol @ sawan

he is allergic to the word ideal :D :D

nice post sweety :)

Think Tank said...

wat do u deal with an ideal anyway...put it up in ur drawing room... lol

vishesh said...

ha but nor can you feel elated :)

Hemanth Potluri said...

priya dear....

its marvelous the way love is explained in ur words..:)...love is never planned may be sometimes we think its planned but...it should happen my a look of eye...and i am waiting for the perfect look :P..heheh...

superb post dear pri :D...

urs..hemu..

ANWESA said...

well,thats wat is called fate.i really beliv 2 ppl r 2gether only due 2 "kismet konnexion"..not d movie,but its all pre-planned..
they say..kaisey kaisey ram milaye jodi..well,i'm also riding wedding waves des dez,my elder frnds of course,not me..he he he..

Aneesh said...

expectations are the cause of disappointments. This is true whether in the case of ideal partners or any other thing. I don't think there are ideal partners. What really matters is how you can make your partner an ideal partner.

BTW
****unknown college of Kerala

You too brutooo. You r disgracing kerala. You could've asked your mom about the name of the college.
ini ithu pole okke ezhuthiyal thallu medikkum, parcel aayitengilum njan ayachu tharum. one bucket full of thallu
LOL

Vinz aka Vinu said...

Its all about timing..

:)

Buzzz said...

hey who knows one day u might get swept off ur feet too and u d not even kno kya hua........

there is never thing called ideal...its just abt the person wth whom u click and its natural than being forced.......

getting me ?

Buzzz said...

and then u d keep thinking ki bhiya yeh kya ho gaya........

Tara said...

Nicely written yaar PJ! Yes, as they say couples are made in heaven and meet on Earth! So, in a way, it is all planned! :) What would be the fun of an ideal bond na? And waise bhi, who will define "ideal"? What seems to be ideal now, may not be tomorrow, it's ever changing...

Perhaps, you need things to spice up life...ups and downs, changing times, changing places...in the game called life! So, hanging on to certain ideals, will deprive us of the fun in it! :)

Suresh Kumar said...

Some still follow trial and error method. They meet many until they finally meet the one meant for them.

You can't have standard specifications like you do have for inventory.

Definitely ideal partners is a imaginary concept fit for the bollywood movies.

Liked what thinktank had to say

Praveen said...

but still, its good to have a small picture in your mind:D
though its better never to compare your partner with the ideal you had in my mind

Saranya said...

Hmmm, thats tru! Predictions or anticipation will not always work!

Phoenix said...

you know i grew up with this notion of ideal man in life

but now when im all grown up, with a 4 year old relationship to handle i think thats the biggest mistake ive ever done

there is nothing called ideal or perfect, if we keep that notion alive then when we meet the guy we want to be with it becomes difficult because he may not be tailor made for you, no one is; but he comes closest to what you percieve as perfect. the sooner you belive the better it is.

Mads said...

lovely post...ur sure mature for a 17 yr old :-)

well...it just happens...when u least expect it...

i hv my ideal guy in mind...dunno when i'll get him, or will i ever get him :P
im leaving it to destiny :-)

Pecos Blue said...

So very true. When it happens it happens!

Sandeep Balan said...

i agree to every single word u hav mentioned here priya....its best when u r nt expecting n all of a sudden luck decides to shine on u....tht is the beauty of destiny....we try to forcefully write the script of our love lives...the way we want it to be...while god may nt hv planned it the way we want...good post...good to discover ur blog...

Priya Joyce said...

@ harshita:

thanx dear...
Yupp destiny has to ultimately decide..
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ sawan:

I meant dream partner..wat we perceive..

Priya Joyce said...

@ chriz:

hey all I meant was the partner we perceive to be our husband/wife.
and not the idealistic one..k
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ lukky:

yupp it seems so
thanx dear
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ farah:

hehe Ideal is the dream partner and not the idealistic ideal...

Priya Joyce said...

@ vish:

plz clear the reason to me...

Priya Joyce said...

@ hemzii:

he look..cool!!

that is hope u get tat magical look soon..

Priya Joyce said...

@ anwesa:

hey that true ..destiny rules..

Priya Joyce said...

@ aneesh:

hey yes true

I agree..i hope u mean dream partner by ideal.


ayyo thallu. appum njaan evide thallu sveegarikkan erunaal alle..lol

Priya Joyce said...

@ vinz:

ye ye tat matters too
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ buzzz:

oops I think all have misunderstood the word ideal..i mean I put it their as dream partners..not the idealistic ideal..
ye One day I hope to be swept off in luv...

:P

Priya Joyce said...

@ buzzz:

yupp got u..correct..

Priya Joyce said...

@ Tara:

**What seems to be ideal now, may not be tomorrow, it's ever changing...

tats cumpletely true..agreed

thanx
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ suresh:

oops here Ideal meant..the dream partners..and not idealistic ideals..

I hope u'll hav another opinion on the post after this..

Priya Joyce said...

@ praveen:

yupp tats true some perception shud be there..

Priya Joyce said...

@ saranya:


yesss
:)
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ Raka:

that's a beautiful comment ..it makes my point more clear
thanx dear

Priya Joyce said...

@ Mads:

hey thanx

Yupp same here donno if I'll get him ever or not..lol

Priya Joyce said...

@ pecos:

thanx dear
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ sandeep :

hey thanx for those lovely words...
destiny is wat ultimately happens..

welcome here
:)

clover said...

this would never work, just forget me

Karthik said...

There is only one happiness in life -- to love and to be loved. No mater what, No matter who, Love happens in a blink of an eye!! I mentioned in my new post these lines

"A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever."

V. Archana said...

true...

Priya Joyce said...

@ clover:

wat do ya' wanna say?

Priya Joyce said...

@ karthik:

those are reely beautiful lines dear..
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ archana:

:)
:)

clover said...

you have priorities in life, yours and mine are different, our worlds and lives are different.

and nothing ever made me feel so low and made me feel less self-respect

you love making fun of it all.

i just think you are not the good guy.

so it would never work.

i love purity. you love money.
irreconcilible differences, that's how you say it in your country, right¿

Priya Joyce said...

@ clover:

first of all I am not a guy ...

then again its a post saying dream partners don't work but destined do ...
I don't understand wer do I and You come from..Its a general post and not a personal..one

Then again about purity and money...do u know me to say all that?

I guess yu didn't understand the stuff in the post..I request yu to read once more...

MultiMenon said...

babe,"like charges always repel..
and its the unlike ones wich attract..."

btw,wen it cums to love,needn be tht things are gotta be in perfect synchro..it works otherwise too..its basically a connmection of the minds if u ask me... :)

nice post!! :)

Chriz said...

haha.. when you claimed in your discalaimer what ideal meant in this post, i was like haha.. cool planned one indeed. yes love sometimes happen that way.. good one joyce girl

Priya Joyce said...

@ multimenon:

yes very true I agree

thanx

Priya Joyce said...

@ chriz:

heheh lol

not planned re

u all misunderstood me
perhaps the word was rong

lol
tats a new name..
lol

Keshi said...

I agree...dun hv partner CRITERIA...just dun expect too much.

having said that, Im still single LOL!

Keshi.

Priya Joyce said...

@ keshi:

hey then better hav a criteria..lol