Relationships "Two"

Back to love and relationships :P
Someone told me that I am good t it. Go spy :P
Two things..just two li'l things that matter :D

1.Don't change!!

This one I guess is pretty girly :P I mean girls always have this complaint that the men in their life change after they commit themselves seriously. Until then it is a dreamy idealistic world. But only later on do realities come is. They find that they give them lesser time. The romance is all gone. The care the perfect things are all gone...The expectations are too high and am sure many women have to "ADJUST" with things coming on to them later on. Of course they do get irritated a lot of times. Lose temper.
The one thing that men can do here is... be real always do. Be honest. Women do have the courage to accept a man as he is. They do have the courage to accept realities and practical life as it comes. GO SLOW. Let her not have to adjust later because she's caught. Let her know you well and then only commit.

2. Don't try to change!!
This is pretty boyish! Let me explain. Men always complain of a thing like this. I've often seen that women think that they can change a man into a completely new person. Someone who keeps his things in place. Someone who is a gentleman n so on. Stop him from being with his buddies. Stop him from his occasional stress release drinking parties...That's not fine at all. You loved him for what he is. His good and bad all are yours. And everyone needs time out of a relationship.. SPACE you know? And yes it's good that the house remains in a mess sometimes. It looks awesome that way. It's good that he's out with his buddies sometimes  you have your very much needed private time.

I bet these two things need to change! The CHANGE has to come in without actually "changing".

ps:) you can add up your points as well.