The 'ifs' and 'if onlys' are products of one's mind.What happens is destined to happen.There is little point in thinking of ifs and ifonlys.We should be able to acheve that mental maturity to make our life simple.
@GP : well wat u say is true. We infact shud appreciate ourselves for our ifs n if onlys bUt the l problem often arises when the ifs come too often and mostlt because of comparison. And of course when people siggest those if onlys to u. Was jus wondering all this..
Priya,Once a decision is made, then there are only two sources of these "if's" and "if onlys": the mind of the decision maker and other peoples.And, as the decision maker can't do anything about other peoples, (s)he can always try to lessen the if word in own mind.
If you had not thought about this, the post would not have existed:)
@braj: tryin to lessen them is often the oly thng we do. But once the damage is done its difficult to rectify it completly.
@Rahul: haha i thnk i need more brains to understand tat comment. :p
When they come, Ignore kar :)
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