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Sunday, 3 January 2010

Is love sacrifice??

When you love a person, you care for a person..and always want good for that person.. When you truly care for a person you also care about what that person thinks about you...

But life is quite strange...
At times it happens that when we really want to do good to a person...and there is a risk that we could be misunderstood by that same person...
we choose to be bad in the eyes of that person..and actually do good to him/her.

May be that is why it is said...that real love is not..being good always ..in the eyes of the person you love..
We can always do good to a person even when we aren't in their good books...

Isn't it basically a sacrifice?? sacrificing one's image...

Is love sacrifice?

33 comments:

Suresh Kumar said...

Prem balidhan mangthi hain... chahe woh desh prem ho ya woh opposite sex se ho....

Well... I actually agree with you.... But I generally believe these r the thoughts which mind generally throws at us... Is it confuse us or to make us a better person? I don't know

ANWESA said...

Is it possible in real life ? I seriously doubt it. Who would potray him/her-self in bad light in front of his/her love(not necessarily romantic)? If someone has to hate you,he/she will do it on her/his own,One doesn't need to enforce it. Thats so very self-derogatory.

Gaurav Kant Goel said...

'Sacrifice' is a small qualification for love. The appropriate qualification is madness. There is only 1 way to love and that is to the point of madness. Anything less than that leaves the scope to love more. This madness may cause to make us bad in the eyes of the person we love but may be thats why its is madness.

Tulika said...

A very difficult one indeed..!!

You have said:

real love is not..being good always ..in the eyes of the person you love..

But,
I wanna ask this, What can be more hurting in "real love" to see your mate in bad light???
And then, that sacrifice does not belong to one. Passively the another one is doomed too in a way.

It's better to overcome the adversities together than to make individual sacrifices. That is what REAL LOVE is...

prajyot said...

sacrifice is part of love re...its not mandatory..but yeah,at many times,it does play the role

SiD said...

quite interesting things... thats y i dont fall in love...often...:D

real love can never b sacrifice... if its sacrifice its not real love!!

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

True love is never about image. Those who go for image are after illusory attention only. True love begins first from within when we truly love God and also ourselves. Then we can truly love others. We can not love others if we hate ourselves. We must first find ourselves in God's scheme of things and we must be at peace with ourselves, then we can seek the one fated for us. God will give wisdom and discernment to those who truly love and serve Him and He will spare them the pains of missteps in life. Thanks for the meaningful post. God bless you always.

Harshita said...

I agree with Gaurav on this. Love is sheer madness and there is no measure.. be it sacrifice, self-less love or unconditional....

Have u ever tried doing it? I mean getting into the bad books just to do good secretively for sum1.. Its an amazing feeling :)

Pallav said...

See Priya.. if you talk about only love...yes than it is asacrifice...
it doesnot matter whether u r in thier good or bad books.. the only thing matter..is u love them..

i personally believe it is not up to love it is any relation if u love n that person u can do anything...

u feel great wen do something like that....
Ek baar try karo.. u will love it....

Arv said...

Happy New Year PJ :)

Ria said...

i m yet to see something of this sort in real life...although this is happened a million times in movies!! :P

~NeeR~ said...

Oh I really loved this line in your post

May be that is why it is said...that real love is not..being good always ..in the eyes of the person you love..

Yeah its very true...we choose to be that who don't even know the feeling of other but we the only one care even on sneezing of other....

And about sacrifice......In true love there is no sacrifice for the sake of scarification. When we do we don't even know that we have done it unless or until anybody notice it and tell it to us. That is what i call true love...

An Ordinary Gal said...

Love is a another name of Sacrifice...dis is what i have felt till the date :(

Vani said...

People dont usuall want to show them in bad lights..Thats Psychology..
Accidental m isunderstandings could happen..People may take our good deeds in a bad view..
I havent seen nyone intentionally portraying them selves as bad to do good to others..May be its possible..I dunno really..
But I'm sure about one thing..Love isnt all about Only sacrifice..When u love someone, u do things just not for the sake of sacrifice itself..U do it without even realising that u r doing it..thats what love is all about..

Nice post PJ..! :)

Yamini Meduri said...

Is Love a Sacrifice...??

i think YES...!!!

I sacrificed my home and my parents for the love to my career....but now i think i will be sacrificing my dreams for the love of my parents..!!!

this may sound difficult and different but its the truth of life..!!

yes, be it with yourself, your parents, friends, country or for that matter anything else, Love is somewhere or the other a SACRIFIcE..be it small or big..!!!

Chandrika Shubham said...

We wanna sacrifice for those whom we love.

Happy New Year.
Best wishes.

Keshi said...

Love isnt Sacrifice, but Sacrifice I think is a product born out of Love :)

Happy New Year Joyce! Stay gold. X

And tnxx for all ur NY wishes thru many emails. Loved em! :)

Keshi.

Dhanya said...

Love is sacrifice in some ways. If not now, you're bound to sacrifice something in years to come -- but you won't regret it, coz love will make it all worthwhile ;)

lena said...

I guess love is always a sacrifice, but maybe in some different way than you mentioned.. it is giving up on you and focussing on we. Finding acompromise and learning to be happy :)

Saranya S said...

Sacrifice is in every relationship and every steps you may take in your life. May be, in love, it is not looked as sacrifice as you would do something for the other person because of the love and affection but not in the view of sacrificing. :)

deeps said...

didnt read re...
but i dont think love IS sacrifice ...
more on that latr ...
how u ?

Jaggu said...

Yes love is definitely sacrifice of your attitude. No offence, because I dont have good opinion on love since I saw the actual face of it.

Hemanth Potluri said...

love is not sacrifice...its giving out ur heart ...sacrifice comes when u loose ur love :)..

urs..hemu..

swati said...

in love there is nothing called as sacrifice..its plain and simple love..
adjustment could be a part of it..but sacrifice is a completely alien term in love.
Happy new year chori!! :)

deeps said...

well, ok...
i differ ..
Love IS not sacrifice
love can cause, make us do sacrifices of the one loved ... and still we we wont have the pain but joy ...
it s just part of the whole, if it s other way, i guess, no one will ever 'fall in love'!! :-P

Quest said...

That would mean that I have made 49sacrifices to 53 people :D

vishesh said...

love is never scarifies...I will say it is an investment :D

Princess said...

love is a tricky thing when it is seen as a concept.
love is eternal and has no bounds so we cannot define it completely

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the masked one said...

it sure is..wen u love someone soo dearly, ull be willing to do any thing possible to make the other happy now matter how hard it may be for u.

faery of the wilds said...

it is beter to do the right thing than to be in the good books... btu we are all humans so we long for bein in the good book...

love is indeed a sacrifice... and most of the times we do it unknowingly... well thats love...

chinks said...

love in al relationships needs sacrifice. its not dat u have to, but ur love grows al d mor wen u sacrifice. dis is wat pure n selfless love is irrespective of wat image u hav in frnt of othrs.

Anonymous said...

Whatever it is, if it doesn't bring you peace, then it is something which you need to discard, no matter how much you cherished it.