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Monday, 3 August 2009

Death is not scary.....


I/you/we often think what would happen if one day I/you/we get the news that my/your/our life on Earth is now going to be numbered and would end soon.

Well as for me I have always spent my time thinking about such people and sympathizing. But it is only now that I think that these people who know that they are going to die in months or weeks are luckier than us. Such people get time to prepare for the ultimate and not like others(some unlucky souls) who die all of a sudden.

I don''t think death is scary when it comes to us...(yeh when it comes to others it's really scary)
You can just drown into your thoughts...and also achieve a few(if not all) things that you've been wanting to...you can do good to others...

What would you like to do if such a thing happens to you and now you have just months/weeks to live?

for me it would be making people around me smile..be it with jokes, be it with a favour they asked for or be it with just a hug...

:)
tc

60 comments:

Suresh Kumar said...
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Suresh Kumar said...

Three days back, my sister's father in law passed away. He passed away at 81 and his death was peaceful and without going to any hospital and at home. I always would like to have such a death..

But Aadmi sochthe kuch aur hain AND hotha kuch aur hain...

Some one said, Live each day as if its ur last day and learn as if u will live forever. So don't worry about life and cherish every moment of life.

When u said to think that days r numbered... a lot of things comes in mind.... hmm.... as my lord says moh ki lokh :)

swati said...

yes it really is scary wen it comes to others..specially the near n dear ones..

the one who dies dont knw bout him/her..but those who are left behind are the sufferers..thr pain is inevitable.

for me i wont tell any1 tat im dying :P death is smthng very usual..aftral death is hereditary yaar :)
n wud wish to fulfil every1's desire :) b4 i die.

huggsss :)

Harshita said...

They make us do this exercise in the ART OF LIVING classes and it is such a relieving experience coz you realize tht when you know you are dying... You dont think abt ur job or money... You think abt ppl, love and relationships. :)

I have a long list of things I wud want to do. :)

Hopeless Romantic said...

death without pain are the best!

Vyshu said...

Death and its thoughts make us think abt ppl ,relations...

Very thought provoking post Dear!

Want to let my Dear ones know how much i love them...n want to spend with my parents

Pramoda Meduri said...

Thought provoking!!

Well, I was not in any way expecting to answer this soon, but wanna tell u now..

I will put all my thoughts in words; and obviously will spend time with my dear ones..

:)..Pramoda

Arv said...

as usual... will make the most of every day left :)

The Solitary Writer said...

well ....tht wud be really scary PJ....counting days damn....isse bura kuch ho bhi sakta hai kya :D

tht itself wud kill

nd hey u r tagged

Arjun said...

hmm... :)

i somehow feel sudden death is beter than knowing when we'r gonna die... :)

I agree with this line of yours- I don''t think death is scary when it comes to us...(yeh when it comes to others it's really scary)

My first visit to ur blog.... I'll try to be a regular :)..

Cheers..!!
Arjun

Dhanya said...

You're so right when you say death is more scary when we see it happening to our near and dear ones! Uff....

Sid 'Ravan' Kabe said...

hey had a spectaculation of life and death when my uncle and younger sister died...i don't feel sad about anything anymore.

Here take a peep on my post on death.

http://sidoscope.blogspot.com/2009/04/of-life-and-death-and-beyond-death.html

Do post your thoughts on it...

ANWESA said...

i wud write a book and get it published asap....

parzi said...

hiee priya
once again a very thought provoking post..
to know before hand that we r about to die is like dying everyday...n as far as knowing about it n living it up is concerned i guess we all know that death is inevitable...and we will die..the sad part is we live as we are immortal and waste life until we realize its too late..
countdown is scary..it would be wise to live each day to ur best so that there r no regrets when we wave good bye to this world!
so wat we would do if we had a clock ticking at r heads lets do it now...n spread as much love as possible!
soorrry lamba hogaya...u always get me to go on n on!
anyway...take care!
keep writing!

Keshi said...

Death isnt scary...I hv been very close to it a couple of times, and I hv felt a deep sense of peace than life itself :)

What wud I do if Im given just weeks/months to live? I dun even hv to imagine that. Cos I think Im given only TODAY to live. Cos I dunno if I'd be here tmrw. So I try to live n love to the best of my abilities. Thats how I live :)

Keshi.

Pallav said...

see its not scary for me.. the problem is i dnt wana die in a pain...hehehe....
just aiweyeee hi death aa jaye...
by god yeh pad ke meri toh death hi ho gyi thi...
par ab main zinda hoon
n haan u knw my uncle use to do ths.. n i was scared of all tht...


good hai ree....
aaj kal reee bolna band kar diya kya...
nahi nahi aisa mat karna..its ur copywrite reeee...

Pallav

Saranya S said...

Thats true. Death is indeed scary and sad when it comes to our dear ones around us. If I would be in such situation, I first of all wish to be in no serious morbidity so that I can go anywhere I want to, do all those duties I should do and of course as you said making others happy.
But I guess it would be more of a sorrow to leave this world where our loved ones are in rather than scary.
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ suresh:

my heartfelt condolences da.
well yeh sudden death isn't scary it happens all of a sudden but slow death gives time of contemplation and knowing how u life has been

well tats quite philosophical n not many succeed...:) but yeh nice view :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ swati:

yes very very true..yaar..wen it comes to our dear ones it scares me a lot..n u kno I too hav a similar idea..hiding it from my ppl n frnds tat am gonna die..i mean wenevr /if evr i'd die like tat :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ harshi:

yess dear tats very true..when u know u r gonna die in some span of tym u bother abt relationships love etc n not money etc ..:)
yehe..we all hav but tat one thing which appeals u the most wats it?

:):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ amit:

yeh i too thot the same until the ym I wrote the post but now it no more matters to me actually :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ vyshu:
..yeh tats the truth. n for all of us all that matters is love n relationships..
n tats wat we bother about wen we think of death...

yes tats what we human beings do n feel special to do..

thnx dear :):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ pramoda:

tats a real different and a wonderful answer u kno...

n i guess tats one of the best here i've got also..

ahh putting ur thoughts in words ahh juss lovely..

:)

thnx :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ arv:

yeh yes..accepting it as it is and doing wat can be done at the most is also a very gud way of contemplating death.
:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ ste:

hehehe darpok kahi ka :P:P

but u kno wat jab u'll experience tat actually u'd feel differently i've seen it in ppl.

yupps dekha tag :P n thnx wud do it :):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ arjun:

well yeh tats gud n bettr or may be tats wat all think.
well the post i wrote after watching "Anand"
a nineteenth time..
and this tym ws when i got the insight..tat the hero not only gets time to contemplate but also to help others n tats wat appealed to me the most.
thnx..n welcome here...:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ dhanya:

hmmm n tats reely sad ..i'd be the really upset to see anything like that..I always wish i juss pass away bfore seeing all that ..

Devil Incarnate... said...

very thought provoking..
scared.! dnt think so. infact ther was no emotion left than a total blankness. Couldnt think of anything, like nothing mattered, though it eventually went that blankness is stil ther..
Whn i faced with it number of times, i was not scared infact happy that i am getting another chance..

Resurgence said...

Gal... ITu sochti bahut jyada hai... well one never knows what death is like until one really faces death... however... it is an inevitable part of our existence... don't think too much of it now... life has many things to offer to u and ur near and dear ones ... njoy those gifts... as far as death is concerned... abhi time hai... jab buddhi ho jaayegi tab sochna.... :)

shwetha said...

Knowat? I feel a person wud loose his peace if he knew his death before. Life gotta b a suspense it is now. Anyways way long thoughts 4 ya age baby.... Nice blog. Tc...

SHWETHA said...

Oh really? I feel life has to be lived day by day. No point in learning what gonna happen. You loose ya peace once for all just like Jane goody. She never slept last 4 days fearing she may die in sleep. And made sureher beloved ones were next to her on her death bed.

lena said...

thats pretty tough actually, but if i had few weeks/months left i would try to do things which i always wanted to do but never could find time for. And I would also try to make people I love happy :)

Rhapsody B. said...

Namaste....

It is why they say (don't know who they are) to "live everyday as if it's your last" because one never knows and nothing is promised.

Rhapsody B. said...
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Deepika Gupta said...

Death is a sensitive topic....
Everyone is scared of it...

if i'll have just few days to live... i'll express all my feelings to the ppl i love the most... coz we love... we live.. we feel.. but we nvr express in words... :) :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ sid:

hmmm ...sad...I cn't say anythin cos a persn who's seen it bfore his eyes knows the best n worst of it .

:):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ anwesa:

oh tats gud..:):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ parzi:

**.it would be wise to live each day to ur best so that there r no regrets when we wave good bye to this world!

tats so vey well said
:):)

hugss

Priya Joyce said...

@ keshi:

yeh tats ryt. well living each day to its best is the best evr way to liv.
just an imagination tat..wat wud it be if ..u get such a news..
i mean some ppl also spend those days cursing... n not contemplating..
tats bad ..

Priya Joyce said...

@ pallav:

mei bhi aisa hi sochti thi pain n all ke baare mei par ab aisa nahi sochti. ab darr hi nahi lagta .

well wat did ur uncle used to do??

hahah re haan bhool gayi thi :P

tc

Quest said...

Such people get time to prepare for the ultimate and not like others(some unlucky souls) who die all of a sudden.


How can you say that they are unlucky? On what basis.

Its considered that the spirit (energy) is what one keeps alive in the physical form and through death it gets released and nobody in what forms it may manifest further as energy is indestructible.

Death can come in a fraction of second and the life can end even before the thought of dying pass our mind.

I wouldn't have felt a one pin prick pain too if I had died that day when I met with an accident. I didn't feel the cut on my face. It all happens in a flash

Everyone wants to die when they face hardships and still they want to live forever :D

Chriz said...

live the way i always live..happy and smiling :)

Satyu said...

Yup you are right.
Death is always scary when it comes to others esp ppl whom we love the most.
Hmm..
When you know that you are goin to die in few days..I guess yes..we can atleast try to fulfill some of our dreams and even say/do things which we always hesitated/suppressed in our selves.

Nice Post

Takecare PJ
Keep Smiling :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ saranya:

yeh dear true..we're so very attached to our loved ones..we'd be sad about their pain after we're no more :(

well tats lyf n death strangely...
thnx :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ devil:

yehe true..that way..n i say the same it's nevr scary when it comes to us..but yeh wen it comes to our loved ones it indeed is .

thnx :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ rahul:
hahah yeh sahi hei par u kno watt aaj kal buddhe hone ka wait nahi karna padta :P
lolz
but the film "anand" inspired me write ths.
:):)
thnx

Priya Joyce said...

@ swetha:

heyy tats wat we thnk i mean yeh true tats wat we all thnk wen we thnk of it u kno but later on wen u reely hav come ovr that fear u start contemplating ..about how u lived ahhh..
just got inspired by the movie "anand".

thnx :):)

Priya Joyce said...

@ SHWETHA:

yeh dear kindaa true too..but people r different u see..

every body needn't behave as Jade Goody na..
N it's not a ideal behavior too.

just wanna say that when we learn tat we'd be leaving this Earth very soon then why can't we contemplate on out life the years spent here n do some gud to ppl before going away..tats all

:) thnx :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ lena:

yeh we keep delaying some of our desires u kno n tats a real gud tym to complete it ...hugzzz :):)

thnx:)

Priya Joyce said...

@ Rhapsody:

oh yeh tats very tru..but still we cn thnk of uncertain things cos as we kno today's wrld is very very uncertain...today we'd be fit n fyn n tomorrow we'd get the news tat we'd be dying in dys/months hooo
*sigh*

:):) thnx

Priya Joyce said...

@ deepika:

welcome here :):)

yeh tats one of the best thngs evr we can do..keeping all anger n regrets n hatred away..jus love towards our loved ones...

:)
they'd mis us more in tat case ;)

Priya Joyce said...

@ quest:
hahaha well i thnk so cos they dun get tym to contemplate on the yrs thy've spent on Earth tats all..

glad to hav u baak on Earth..:P

tc

Priya Joyce said...

@ chriz:

well yeh...tats a real gud way to liv off the yrs u hav on earth.
thnx :)

Priya Joyce said...

@ satyu:

yeh tats the saddest thng tat can happen to nyone on Earth..losing ther dear ones..hmmm.

well yeh tats gud..it's quite living a complete lyf wth dreams fulfilled.
:):)
thnx a lot dear :):)

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